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My self-summary
If you 'like' me, I'll never know unless you say hi :(. Not into messaging a lot. If my profile intrigues you let's talk and see if there's chemistry.
I'm not like anyone you ever met. I am kind, gracious, strong, funny, smart, sensuous and spiritual. I'm fit but not fanatical about it, intelligent but not a geek, a Christian but not religious. I appreciate spontaneity and dancing like nobody's watching. My pics are accurate, some say I look better in person but they probably need glasses;)

I strive to be honest, kind, a good listener & a thoughtful creative lover. I enjoy passionate kissing. Long deep conversation doesn't bore me I find it stimulating. I'm genuine but tactful, I don't like liars and users and I would never willfully hurt anyone.

HINT: If you hit LIKE ME please write me or I will never know! I'm looking for real love, my last first date. The woman I seek 'gets me' and thinks I'm terrific - warts and all. I'll feel the same about her. The special woman I seek is sweet, smart, sexy, spiritual sensuous & fit, fun & funny; BEAUTIFUL inside and out. Making love is wonderful & important, but we'll spend a lot more time talking. You can have baggage as long as it's checked or on wheels:) Integrity is essential. Please do what you say and be honest.
What I’m doing with my life
I write books and screenplays & transformational speaking on spiritual growth and healing.
I’m really good at
Writing, listening, counseling, speaking & helping people heal & grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, smile, intelligence and wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Grisham novels, W Somerset Maugham & books about Lincoln & other fascinating people. I like many great films like Ghosts, Flashdance, Passion of the Christ, Ben Hur, Les Miserables (1998), Patch Adams, West Side Story, Immortal Beloved, etc..

I enjoy French food, Thai, Seafood, Indian & eating healthy. Think protein rather than carbs.

Music tastes range from Rock
To Classical, Baroque & good worship music, Leonard Cohen, Diana Krall, George Gershwin, and and some country.... but no rap or hip hop.
Six things I could never do without
Good friends, family, faith, So Cal, my iPhone and writing. (Okay, I can live without some of these things but these are what I appreciate most.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Promoting writing & finding the love of my life. You're out there, right? If you feel we are a match and LIKE ME, please TELL ME, don't just use Quick match or we won't find each other. Wouldn't that be sad:(
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, reading or out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm. It's really hard to find a great relationship. Why are some Women afraid to answer this Q?
You should message me if
My profile and many responses tell you a lot about. After all, we're seeking the most important relationship in our lives here, right?
If you like what you see and read, let's talk. I really hope you'll take a chance and reach out. I'm not into texting and messaging. We can tell much more on a phone call. If you don't look like your pics you're buying drinks till I don't care:) if you won't answer questions here or pose good pictures I don't think you're serious and we probably aren't a match. Isn't this more important than a job interview?

I want a serious long term relationship, the kind everyone envies. Before we commit we'll get to know each other as friends and lovers, heart to heart, the good the bad and what little ugly there is. We'll also know we are compatible intellectually, spiritually & all other ways; we'll be confident that this is our last great love. The most essential element for me is communication. If you know your love language and embrace love and respect I'm really interested. We just might create an epic love. I hope so:) And ... please live close.

Concerning my faith: True Christianity isn't about religion it's about our relationships with God and others. It's also about joy, peace, lovingkindness, patience and fidelity; we'll have each other's back. I want my last intimate relationship to be a foretaste of Heaven. What do you want? Tell me. Then let's talk;).
The two of us