38Virginia Beach, United States
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My self-summary
Self summary well let’s see... I’ve filled my profile out 100% honestly and what you see is what you get with me. I know who I am. I’m an easy person to talk to and I don’t ask much from other people. We all want to be accepted and I’m no different. Don’t blame me for being honest or being myself. This is me and if you are an honest person, open minded, you know what’s important and what's not in a relationship then we may have something to talk about. If we have something in common, you can understand about my style or something in my profile caught your eye we have something to talk about. I’m definitely looking for something long term. I’m looking to invest time, effort, love and energy into a relationship. If you think this is what you are looking for let me know. Send me a message but I do suggest you finish reading my profile and take a look at some of the questions I’ve answered that I have strong opinions about. I will say that I'm the furtherst thing from a country guy you will find! If you are only into country type guys it is best to skip over me right now! Thank you for taking the time to view my profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Well I’m doing what most mature, responsible adults do. I work full time. I pay my bills, I try to have fun when time permits. I keep up my car, my place and other responsibilities I have. After all the necessities are taken care of I do enjoy having some disposable income. I am debt free! I am happy with and secure with my job. I’ve been with my current job for over 10 years! I am looking forward to becoming happier with my life. My life isn’t bad and I am happy most of the time but I’m just missing that special woman in my life. Love is really the only thing I’m lacking in my life right now! I am every bit looking for a honest and meaningful relationship with the right woman! Where is she? I’m searching for her that’s why I am here!
I’m really good at
I’m really good at the type of work I do for a living. I enjoy working and my job very much. I work on plumbing, electrical, electronic devices, lighting, HVAC, maintenance, computers and really so much more. I have a gift for doing this type of work and doing it well. I’ve been involved with it for many years going back to my childhood. I’ve always enjoyed doing this and learned partly from taking things apart and seeing what made things work plus a lot of hands on experience. I spent many years just building knowledge on fixing and repairing all kinds of things.

Another thing I’m really good at is being a good person. Someone good to talk to. I really do try to be good to other people, be friendly and helpful. I’ve gone through a lot in my life and also seen and had to deal with many different types of things and I always have time to talk to somebody to try and give good advise. I am a good influence to people. I’m really good at problem solving and weighing options. I have many goals, values and beliefs that I do live by and follow. I understand that most females are not into good guys but I am who I am and I refuse to be any different than myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the first thing people notice about me is my style and the type of clothing I choose to wear. I have no problem being different and I don’t mind talking about it and answering questions but I don’t have to explain myself to anybody who wants to be judgmental about this! If you don’t consider yourself to be a open minded kinda person you more than likely aren’t going to be into me. Just being honest! So please don’t waste my time or yours! I usually wear women’s clothes from the waist down (Jeans, Shorts, Capris, Skirts) and on occasion I’ll wear a dress. (Only certain types of course!) I guess the biggest reason is I love how comfortable the clothes are! I like the look and style of it also.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is very high on my list of favorite things. My favorite type of music would include classic rock, 70s and 80s music mostly but I also like some 90s and also some newer music as well. I’m not into rap or hip hop music unless it’s old school. I mean classics from the early days of rap like 80s or early 90s. Part classic rap part funk sounding. Music is a big subject to me. I love talking about music and listening to it as often as possible. I decided to give you a quick break down of some of the artists / bands I’m into. This list is not in order and is a small sample of what I like so here goes! AC/DC, Billy Joel, Elton John, Aerosmith, Bob Seger, Boston, Bruce Hornsby, Bruce Springsteen, David Bowie, Def Leppard, Depeche Mode, Foreigner, INXS, Madonna, Michael Jackson, Hall & Oates, Heart, Huey Lewis And The News, Lionel Richie, Nirvana, Ozzy Osbourne, Dave Matthews Band, Phil Collins, Pink Floyd, Roxette, Styx, Sting, The Eagles, Genesis, Gloria Estefan, Goo Goo Dolls, REO Speedwagon, Rick Astley, The Police, Tina Turner, Toto, Steely Dan, Steve Miller Band, Pet Shop Boys, Duran Duran, Kool And The Gang, Journey Plus many, many more!!

My favorite foods would include italian food, mexican food, pizza, pastas, cheese burgers and breakfast food items. I also love chips and salsa, popcorn and fast food. I still love home cooked meals as well. I’m kinda a picky eater but I know what I like and what I don’t.

My favorite movies are really all kinds of movies. New movies, old movies, action, comedy and horror. I really enjoy watching movies and better yet with good company.
Six things I could never do without
Six things I could never do without hmm... Well here goes. These things are not in any particular order included with a little explanation.

1. Entertainment which includes “music, movies, video games and good reading material.”

2. My Car Lets face it. Good, clean, reliable, transportation is a must when it comes to commuting to and from work, travel, and running day to day errands plus it‘s fun to drive and take road tips in.

3. Soda It’s refreshing, and it tastes good. I like it a lot. It’s not the only liquid I drink but it is a majority of the time.

4. Faith The faith I have in God. The faith I have in some people and the faith I have in my ideas, values and things I feel strongly about.

5. Love I must say as of right now love is something I am doing without but not by choice! Love is something I could never do without but I have been for a long time. Maybe you can change that. This is why I am on this site.

6. Knowledge The detained knowledge I have on many different issues related to technology, electronics, science and many different related aspects. It’s nice knowing what to do, how to do it and how to handle an issue when it arises.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about my future and my future including a serious long term relationship that will lead to marriage one day when the time is right of course. I spend a lot of time thinking about the circumstances of when, where and how I will meet that special, kind, loving and open minded female. I try to keep all my options open. I believe in one man one woman kinda relationships. Faithfulness and being loyal is key! I know what I want in a female and what I want out of a relationship. I spend a lot of time thinking about when people’s negative attitudes are going to change towards people who are different, who choose to be different, who dress differently and who have things or issues about them that can’t be helped. Being different and not caring what others think should be praised! Doing your own thing and doing it because you like it and not because everyone else is doing it should be praised!
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing and unwinding after working all week. I could be doing a number of things on a Friday night. Spending an evening at the swimming pool or I could be packing to take a weekend get away road trip. Going out to eat at a restaurant. Spending a quiet evening at home watching a movie or I could be kicking back a few cold ones listening to music or playing video games. It really depends on my mood and how tired I am. This is all subject to change if I was in a relationship. I would like to do things that we would both enjoy.
You should message me if
Well lets see. You should message me because I am a friendly person, easy to talk to, a good listener, someone who can keep up in a conversation and because I am a open and honest person. You should message me if there is something about me that catches your eye or something that you find within my profile that stands out to you in a good or positive way. You should message me if you feel I am somebody that you could see yourself being involved with in a lasting long term relationship. You should message me if you find that we have some common interests or we have a high match rating. Last but not least you should message me if you feel we have something to talk about and you feel I am somebody worth getting to know as a person. I have absolutely nothing to gain by being dishonest here! This is me! What you see is what you get! If you see something on my profile you have a question about don’t be afraid to ask. If you still want to contact me that’s great and I look forward to talking with you! Finally thanks for checking out my profile!
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