30 Cary, United States
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My self-summary
I've lived in Raleigh/Cary almost all of my life, and really like the area. I love playing soccer (though I recently stopped to focus on other types of exercise) or doing pretty much any other activity outdoors or indoors.

I went to NC State (don't hold it against me UNC or Duke people!) for my undergrad degrees in Business and Spanish.

I enjoy competition, whether physical or mental. I think it's healthy to have in life so long as you don't take it too far.

I'm looking for someone to laugh with and spend my time with. A sense of humor is a must! Also, if you own a pet (especially a dog), that's a big bonus!
What I’m doing with my life
I work at Social Security as a bilingual claims representative, eventually I want to transfer to another agency, like the US Marshals. Since 2014 I have been on a health kick with eating better and finding new fun ways to exercise like rock climbing and pilates. I currently go to the gym 4-5 days a week. I just did my first spartan sprint 4/9/16, and had a blast. I can't wait to do another!

I would love to start traveling on more major trips than just weekend camping (like going on international trips!)
I’m really good at
Quick retorts, trivia, fun conversation (though in person much more so than online).
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not the tallest guy in the room, but my personality is bigger than I am when I open up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dan Brown books, Ken Follett books, and of course I've read all the bandwagon books like Harry Potter and Twilight. Generally I'm pretty happy with Fiction.

Movies: all time favorite is the GOONIES. I'm easy to please with movies but generally I like comedies and actions.

Music: Pretty much anything except country music, I really enjoy any music that pumps me up.

Food: my favorite is Italian, but I generally do anything that isn't over the top with "special marinades" and such.
The six things I could never do without
1) Friends and family
2) Soccer
3) Pizza
4) Traveling
5) The gym (I've become a big proponent of pilates)
6) Movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The last competitive sports game I played, my plans for the weekend, future trips, what I might have forgotten to do at work, what I would do if I won the lottery, even though I never buy tickets.

Also, though not as often, how many messages must girls get on here? I see some complain about constantly having a full inbox?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with close friends. I don't go out to bars or clubs that often, but that certainly doesn't mean that I wouldn't want to!
You should message me if
No "if"s, just do it! I'm an open book! I love assertive ladies.
Also, if I have "liked" you, you WILL get a message back!