39Mishawaka, United States
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My self-summary
I am a 34 year old divorced male looking for someone who wants to be treated like a princess. Tired of playing the head games and trying to be something I'm not. I want someone who wants me for who I am. Someone I can be 100% honest with. Someone who will be 100% honest with me. I am a VERY open person. I will tell you anything you want to know, just ask. I've found that honesty is the best policy.

I have a 13 year old daughter, Kristy. She has next to no contact with her mother so my father helps out a lot with her.

I'm also the Director of the Indiana Paranormal Society, which is a local non-profit ghost hunting group. We do monthly meetings and ghost hunts and have been doing this for over 15 years. We have about 30 members in the South Bend/Mishawaka area who come out each month for our meetings and hunts. It's a fun hobby. We are a scientific group, not thrill-seekers. We don't use Ouija boards or psychics. If we can't document it, we can't consider it paranormal.

I'm currently working at a local woodshop building musical instrument cases. I LOVE my job. Making a ton of cash here doing it. I like being my own boss and not having to have people looking over my shoulders all the time.

I am also a part time actor. I have been in two documentaries and a full length movie so far. I was in 'Harvey Putter and the Ridiculous Premise' as an extra who played several different minor roles. I was then in Lloyd Kaufman's 'Make Your Own Damn DVD' documentary as a background extra. We recently had a documentary made about the ghost hunting group called 'Buck and Drake, the Search for Ghosts'. We were in it for a good 45 minutes talking about haunted locations and showing how we conduct a ghost hunt. I have my own IMDB page. Yeah I know it's geeky but it's who I am. Plus I just got another acting job coming up in a pilot for a TV series being shot here int he South Bend area.

Speaking of being a geek, I also enjoy MMORPGs and other internet video games. EQ, WoW, DAoC, DDO, CoH, etc... You name it I've played it. I play Dungeons and Dragons on occasion and most of my friends are as geeky/nerdy as I am.

I like being outside and walking. I take my dog on long walks around downtown Mishawaka, pretty much every day. His name is Kikris and he's the greatest dog to ever live. He's just so dumb he's cute. He barks at everyone and is very protective of my daughter and I( Don't worry, he's not a threat. Daschund and beagle mix). We dress him up for Halloween and Christmas and have birthday parties for him each year. He's a member of our family. Not really a cat person myself but I can tolerate them if I have to, lol.

I like watching movies and just spending time cuddling. I love horror movies and cult movies. Evil Dead, Redneck Zombies, Brain Dead, I Spit on Your Grave, etc... B-movies are great too. I'm a big fan of anything Troma studios produces. The Toxic Avenger and Terror Firmer are great movies. Comedies are good too but I'm not a big fan of action movies. Though Indiana Jones and Transformers are okay. I like comic book movies too. I'm a true nerd who used to read all the comics I could get my hands on.

I like to be romantic. I always look for ways to surprise my partner. Candlelit dinners with romantic music and a nice back massage after a long day of work is one of my favorite things to do for them. I would rather fall asleep cuddling the person I love than just having a quick one night stand. Sex isn't what I am after on here. I want a relationship and someone I can love and spend the rest of my life with. Sex is easy to find true love isn't.

I'm not too picky about how a person looks. To me it's what's on the inside and how you treat me that count. I am looking for a woman who's ready to settle down some and have a serious relationship. Someone who I can trust and who wants me for me.

My last relationship lasted for a little over a year and a half with about half that time being a long distance relationship. It just didn't work out. We seem to have wanted different things out of relationship and life.

Well I hope this is enough to get the 1000 words they ask for. I don't know what else to type. I'm an open book willing to chat with anyone. If you are interested in me drop me a message and I will reply asap. I usually only reply during the day through out the week so please be patient, I will reply to every message I get. Thanks.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working for myself buying and selling items on eBay.
I’m really good at
Listening and giving back massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor. It can sometimes be dark but I can always make you laugh no matter what.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like RA Salvatore, Laurell K. Hamilton, Harry Potter, and anything Zombie related.

Movies: I LOVE horror movies and comedy. Though I do enjoy the occasional 'chick flick' as well. Not too picky will watch anything. Though anything Kevin Smith does is great. I love Clerks 2, Dogma, Chasing Amy, etc...

TV: mostly reality shows or paranormal stuff like Cake Boss, Pawn Stars, Storage Wars, Destination Truth, and Ghost Hunters.

Music: country if it's the radio. My iPod fe4atures artists such as Meat Loaf, Tom Petty, ZZ Top, Aerosmith, Nick Cave, and Creature Feature. Though lately I've been listening to more podcasts than music.

Food: I'm picky. Very picky. Too much to list here. Basically I'm a burger guy. Could eat hamburgers every day and never get tired of them. I love to grill out.
Six things I could never do without
1. My Dog
2. My computer
3. My family
4. My xbox
5. My Cell Phone
6. My Van
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex.... Hell I'm a guy I think we all do...
On a typical Friday night I am
Either working, on the computer, or out ghost hunting. I don't party too much and enjoy the quiter things in life. Being with people I love and just hanging out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Isn't much I am not willing to admit. My life is an open book. Ask me anything and I will tell you the truth. Very blunt and up front about everything.
You should message me if
You like to be treated like a princess and if you want a guy who is 100% completely honest with you. I have no secrets and tell you everything. Tired of playing head games and want someone I can be myself with and who wants to be swept off their feet.
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