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My self-summary
My name's Ste. The username is simply because, well, it's been my main online username for almost a decade, so it feels weird using anything else.
I'm a polyamorous bisexual switch. I do have a serious longterm girlfriend, but she has no problem with me dating other people (and she has another boyfriend with the same name as me, for confusion value).

I'm not always consistent in all respects, but while I may fluctuate from active to slow, I always appreciate the company of interesting people, and the seeking of interesting facts and experiences.

I don't believe in lying to people I care about; especially when it is phrased as being "for their own good". If I care about someone I should never need to lie to make them feel good about themself, and if I do I should know enough to realise that lying will only make them feel worse later.

I don't like writing many paragraphs beginning with I.

I really can't think of another way to do this though.

Well, except for using the third person.

Kingreaper wants YOU to read this without laughing.

Maybe leaving it there would be for the best :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I've dropped out of university recently, due to mental health difficulties, and am seeking help with those.

I'm also working on a card game based around swordfighting. I need art for it, but the basics are working okay.
If the idea sounds interesting, check out more info:
Or message me :-)
I’m really good at
Passing exams I shouldn't stand a chance at. Going to sleep at sunrise; or after. Replacing sleep with cola

Not updating my profile for so long that half the things are no longer accurate.
Explaining things I don't understand until I've finished explaining them.
Being perfectly honest. Thinking too much
The first things people usually notice about me
According to a poll of my gf and my mate's gf, my long hair.

Also, I have a goofy smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favourite books: Anything Terry Pratchett, or Terry Brooks. I haven't read any Terry Goodkind, but if the pattern holds I should like them too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to relate to people. Whether I'm achieving my aims in life. What my aims in life actually are. What I actually want from relating to human beings.

I don't spend much time thinking about what to put in these text-boxes. That may explain why they are woefully inadequate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing D&D 4e around my friends house. Some nice food, a few drinks (sometimes even their own brews), good company and a fun game. It's great.

If that's not happening, then I'll generally head out for pubbage, and end up hitting a club later.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I stole blu-tac from my parents at around age 8, and never told anyone until now.

More relevantly: While I have a sex drive, I don't actually enjoy sex as much as play, and one of my favourite things is just cuddling someone while naked/partially clothed, and feeling their skin against mine.
You should message me if
you think you and I could get on.

Indicators that that could be the case include: You have plans for a zombie apocalypse. You enjoy learning new things. You've got geek cred out the wazoo. Honesty is preferred to pleasantry. You'd never laugh at the misfortune of others, except when it's funny :-)
The two of us