So I'll just lay it out simply without anecdotes or navel gazing ramblings.
I am a single dad with a healthy, functional relationship with my child & her mother.
I have a full time job, a mortgage, & no car payment (yes I have a car this isn't slang for I ride the bus or bike everywhere).
I enjoy hiking, urbexing (don't know ask), reading, movies & tele, a healthy debate, photography is a new found passion of mine, & I like to go out on occasion.
I'm not a vegan or religious, but I am a social democrat in the vain of the Swedish (if you don't know what that means, don't worry, it isn't scary).
I use my days off to either run errands or go off & take photos of graffiti, urban abandonments, or nature.
I'm trying to take more time for myself away from work & my duties as a dad, get a little me time in. It's hard because I've been a workaholic all of my life & a primary caregiver for going on 11 years, so, it is hard to disconnect.
I've got a really good memory for facts but not dates.
I can cook pretty well, nothing fancy, but I'd like to try learning.
I'm organized & clean, most of time.
I'm good at making people laugh & take pride in it, but don't have the desire to be a stand up.
I'm also a ginger.
My sideburns too.
What do they notice about my personality?
Sarcasm, dry wit.
Movies: Anything with Simon Pegg, Zombies, or guys in masks killing people. But I also love indie movies, like Squid & the Whale, most of Wes Andersen's movies, and I like old Universal horror movies too. American Beauty, Brokedown Palace, Casablanca, Don't Tell Mom the Babysitters Dead, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Sun, Four Rooms, Gods & Monsters, Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle and Escape for Gitmo, Interview with a Vampire, Jack, Kentucky Fried Movie, Lost Highway, Marie Antoinette, Night of the Living Dead and the Romero sanctioned sequels, Opera, Playing by Heart, Queen of the Damned, Rosemary's Baby, The Station Agent, Thirteen, Uncle Buck, The Virgin Suicides, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?, Young Frankenstein, Zombie...
Music: Placebo, MC Frontalot, & lyrics that make me think/laugh. I don't dig country at all. Adam WarrockAir, Amon Tobin, Andrew Bird, Art Brut, the Avenue Q Soundtrack, Badly Drawn Boy, Beck, Belle & Sebastian, Bush, Cake, The Clientele, Damien Rice, Dropkick Murphys, The Eels, Elliott Smith, Eluvium, Garbage, Jay and Silent Bob Soundtrack, Journey, Jem, MC Chris, MC Front-a-Lot, MC Hawking, Muse, Pinback, Placebo, Postal Service, Queen, Radiohead, REM, Rufus Wainwright, Sia, Skankin' Pickle, Stephen Lynch, The Streets, Tom Waits, Umbrella, Velvet Goldmine Soundtrack, Within Temptation, Yo La Tango, Zero 7....
Television: CSI, House, Law & Order: SVU, Criminal Minds, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Good Eats, shows where I learn about Hitler's digestive track, dinosaurs, Romans, Irish caverns, and animals eating each other.....
And a hell of a lot more because I watch whatever is on even just as background noise.
Food: I am an omnivore. Man evolved to eat dairy, meat, grain, and vegetables. I don't care if you are a vegetarian just don't judge me for my natural desire to eat what I like. I'm also a bit of a foodie -- I like to cook, eat out, and experiment.
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You should message me if you enjoyed my profile or at least got a giggle out of it.
You should message me if you know of any abandoned buildings in the tristate area.
You should message me if you feel like debating politics/religion/pop culture.
You should message me if you have any advice or tips on how to make OkCupid work.
You should message me if you need a friend or any enemy.