28 Billerica, United States
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My self-summary
I'm happiest in a room full of people shooting the shit, or at a bar with friends/acquaintances/a chatty crowd. I've had conversations with all kinds of people about all kinds of jobs, hobbies, passions, families, concerns, and joys. I love learning about a person, and seeing life through their lens.

I love tech, internet culture, and video games, but I don't play games much by myself. I strongly prefer to play with friends, and get bored very quickly if I play solo.

I also love TV shows and B list or indie movies. I'm not really the blockbuster action film type, I'd prefer something to make me laugh or think.

I'm the guy you can count on for a quick joke or comeback, although I make no guarantees on their quality.

Unique board games are super fun with the right group of people... My collection is becoming rather crowded.
What I’m doing with my life
As far as work, I sell software. I absolutely love my job and everyone I work with, it's an amazing feeling, and one I think everyone deserves to find.

My weekends have lately involved a lot of seeing friends out by Worcester or down on the South Shore, or going on some kind of trip. I'm new to the north of the city area, so I don't know many people up this way.
I’m really good at
Working on cars/Fixing things in general

Forgetting which songs I know on guitar when people ask me to play.

Making animal friends.

Actively avoiding participation in theme parties. I'll go to the party, and I'll do your theme, but I won't be happy about it, and my "costume" will show that. (In a generally humorous way)

Reaching things in high places

Bubble Hockey
The first things people usually notice about me
Generally the fact that I'm the tallest person in the room, or that my voice is stupidly deep.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV and Movies are a long and ridiculous list: I tend to prefer dark and witty humor, I love movies with dialogue and TV shows based on characters and their development. Boston movies hold a special place in my heart. Let me know your all time favorite show and let's talk about it!

Books tend to follow the same route: dark, dystopian, character driven. I love the Kidd series & Prey series by John Sandford, my favorite book is Kahlil Gibran's The Prophet. Catch 22 holds a high rank there as well.
The six things I could never do without
Never do without is a strange thing: I could live with a few close friends in the woods and be a happy man.

But the six things I use in my life as it stands?
1.) The people in my life, friends and coworkers.
2.)My guitars, even if I don't play them as often as I'd like.
3.) A vehicle
4.) A bed or place to call home.
5.) Beer or Bourbon
6.) A clear objective for growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This quote I heard on This American Life sums it up quite well:
"Over the years, Emir's told this story a lot. It might be his favorite story that he tells about himself. It rhymes with this view of the world, that there's just this huge, accidental component to life's outcomes, that everyone owes at least some of their success not just to chance but to other people being nice for no reason at all."
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking with friends, either at a small gathering or a local bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm so unfamiliar with the gym that I still call it James.
You should message me if
You know a bar that people still go to to hang out, to talk, to meet new friends.

You have a book or movie recommendation.

You'll never ask me to go jogging/running/zumbaing/whatever else you crazy kids are doing nowadays.