51 Santa Cruz, United States
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My self-summary
I love living by the sea! There is no better existence! It is my church. It takes all my cares away and puts everything in perspective!

I'm a guy who's single again after a recent relationship of two years. Now, with a new space to create a new relationship in front of me, all you lovely women are in my view. I wonder if I'll meet someone to grow into something with and perhaps to grow old with. It is my desire to do so.....

Having said that, I will declare: I love the company of charming, sexy, flirty women and am fond of living hedonistically. I love women and the thrills you all give me! The Universe did right when it designed you all!

That's not to say I'm Joe-Suave. I'm as much a geek as the next guy!

I love DJ'ing - mostly deep house, but really, any kind of house, breaks, trance and other electronic dance music; I love any kind of funky, kick'n dance music.

I'm a ham and love speaking in cheesy accents which I do well. I love dressing up in every type of historical garb as I am quite a geek that way, too!

I'm an avid writer who struggles to find the time to do so, though damn good at it when I put pen to paper or fingers to keyboard.

I'm an educator and work with challenged, at-risk, gang-bang'en teens.

I'm very well informed and am an addict for NPR!

I love a good party and hanging out with friends drinking, hottubbing, smoking greenly, and laughing.

I find I get along with women more than men and have more women friends, yet am a very masculine guy so I don't know what the f#ck I am. I will say I am a horny Scorpio. I know I'm more a kinked up top than a bottom and occasionally like to play in those circles where such titles are used!!!

I'm a sappy romantic and love to touch and be touched sensually and lovingly.

I'm smart 'n witty, sassy and clever as hell! I love to dance and do so when ever I can. I am part of a group called the Danse Macabre where I dance the Danse of the Dead! I act and perform at some outdoor weekend gigs I'm fond of too.

I'm 6' tall and have a decent shape to me. I'm pierced above the waist, but not anywhere that you can see and I have some ink up and down my back.

My lifestyle: In my estimation, there is nothing as wonderful as living on the coast....

I am gregariously charming, arousingly intelligent, and an adept libertine.
What I’m doing with my life
I love being out on the Playa and Burn'n! Its been a few years and I'd like to get back there some time.

I love teaching and writing. I'm currently working on a fully researched, historical novel as I'm quite the history geek.
I’m really good at
...highschool history/civics teaching ...street improvisation acting and hamming it up. ...European accents, writing, and using the Queen's English with exquisite perfection! ...writing Victorian erotica! ...roadtripp'n and travelling. ...being charming, conversational and gregarious. ...having/giving/receiving hot sex!!! ...knowing and conversating about geography, history, politics and cinema trivia. ....knowing how to tell, and even construct a good story.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile.
My willingness to talk to damn near anyone!
My hair....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Colleen McCollough's Roman Republic series, Winston Chruchill's "The History of the English Speaking Peoples", "The Ethical Slut" by Easton and Liszt, "Angels and Demons", "Devinci Code" by Brown, "Castles of Steel" & "Dreadnaught" both by Massy, Anything Tolkien, especially "The Silmarillion", "The History of Civilization" series by Durant, anything by Tuchman, "Paris 1919" by MacMillan, "Patton" by D'Estes. Anything with a good map in it!!!!

MOVIES: Secratery, Black Snake Moan, The Godfather series, Patton, Kama Sutra, The Italian Job, Pride and Prejudice and any other Jane Autstin/Bronte sisters/period movies too, Shakespeare In Love, Henry V, 13 Days, anything by Ken or Ric Burns, The Right Stuff, Malcolm X, Cinderella Man, Lord of the Rings series, Star Trek II, the English Patient, Casablanca, North By Northwest, Midway, Kelly's Heros, Mr. Smith goes to Washington, the Bridge on the River Kwai, Some Like It Hot!, Kingdom of Heaven, Blazing Saddles, History of the World, Part 1, Four Weddings and Funeral,

TV SERIES: The Wire, Boardwalk Empire, Rome, The Sopranos, Big Bang Theory, Deadwood, Westwing, any Star Trek, the Borgias, House of Cards, Game of Thrones.

MUSIC: I love electronic dance music-read 'house' music. I love the blues. I love to rock out! I love P-Funk, old Soul and R&B!

Some individual examples of what and who I like:

Numerous DJ's I know spinn'en decks with some kicken house or breaks.
High Roller - from Vegas - Crystal Method
Chemical Brothers
At Last - Etta James
So Flute - from Trourist - St. Germaine
All Blues - from Kind of Blue - Miles Davis
Wandering Star - Portishead
Ten Years Gone - from Physical Graffiti - Led Zepplin
Kings and Queens - from Draw the Line - Aerosmith
The Jack- Live - from ??? live album ??? - ACDC
Rhapsody in Blue - George Gershwin
Summertime - performed by Janis Joplin
Summertime - performed by Miles Davis
Red House - Jimi Hendrix
Strange Fruit - Billy Holiday
Satellite - Dave Matthews Band
Rain Song - Live - from The Song Remains the Same - Led Zepplin
Ramble On - Led Zepplin
Take the A Train - Duke Ellington & Billy Strayhorn
L A Woman - The Doors
Gangsta Tripp'n - Fat Boy Slim
How Soon Is Now - The Smiths
Dog Days Are Over - Florence and the Machine
Maple Leaf Rag - Scott Joplin
Dirty Money - from soundtrack to The Road To Perdition
Statesborough Blues Live - performed by Allman Brothers
Tied To The Whipp'en Post - Live - Allman Brothes
Lenny - Stevie Ray Vaughn
Debra - Beck
Bobby McGee - Janis Joplin
Sweet Emotion - Aerosmith
Jupiter - from The Planets - Holst
Your Still A Young Man - Tower of Power
Mary Jane - Rick James
This Is How We Do It! - Montel Jordan
Low Rider - War
Got To Give It Up - Marvin Gaye
My Way or the Highway - Limpbizkit
One Good Man - Janis Joplin
Living on the Edge - Aerowsmith
The six things I could never do without
the coast, great sex, women, writing, dancing, good music, street improv acting
(Okay, so that's 7...what? Am I to be constrained by OKC's numbers? There's seven, not six and that's that! ~grin~ )
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"ethical" and great sex... jus' saying... Scorpio & 1/2 Italian - Hello?
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving to some weekend event or gig I'm part of, somewhere around Northern California where I'm gonna perform and play like a big dog all weekend long! Or being at some gathering here in town. On the occasional rare Friday, home, and recharging for the moment. Sleeping in.... then to Saturday! WOOT!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've quite a bit of sensual energy and can't get enough!

I love giving as much as receiving behind closed doors.

I subscribe to the tenants of the "The Ethical Slut" by Easton and Liszt (you should read it). Thus, I know how to treat a woman right and how ~not~ to be 'that' guy that makes women cringe at dating. I get that! I really do!

I'm a firm believer that: communication is the best lubrication! ~grin~
Well.... I do.....
You should message me if
you are comfortable with your body, uninhibited, bold and free. If, by some chance, there is some kink in there for good measure, even better, but certainly not a requirement!