It's a really beautiful world.
I am pretty into polyamory (ethical non-monogamy): people who are kind and honest with each other should be able to grow all of their relationships, without any external pressure beyond making sure that they have the time and energy for the people they care about. Monogamy can be the right thing, too, sometimes.
I would be glad to talk about what I want from life, and I hope you're able to, too. Relationship structures are so interesting.
I'm back rediscovering Boston.
This is my favorite city, and it feels like home. I'm taking stage manager gigs for circus and burlesque, and building up a neat career as a programmer.
Goofball hip hop dancing, proportionate-response punning, communication with friends/+, and erring on the ethical side.
I make pretty sold broccoli-mango guac and vegan chocolate truffles, too.
Update: The cast of the Slutcracker taught me how to twerk this Christmas. Look out, World.
Paul Simon, Flogging Molly, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Sonic Youth, Florence + the Machine, Massive Attack, The Rapture, Mos Def & Talib Kweli, M.I.A., and almost every cover of "All Along the Watchtower." Make me a mix tape and I'll swoon.
Books will take some thought. It'll definitely include some William Gibson, Will Shakespeare, Rudy Rucker, Jennifer Egan, and Kieron Gillian. I love Through the Looking Glass and F Scott Fitzgerald's prose. Hunter S Thompson is great, but I can't stand Kerouac.
I have a knee deep "to read" pile. Things there that I will never finish include: Finnegan's Wake, David Foster Wallace's anything, the last dozen Shakespeares, and Guns, Germs & Steel.
I am hoping to find a primary partner, but I am not against any rewarding relationship in between. Let's just play it by ear?