30Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
I love people, really nice speakers, curling up in a cafe to be creative, any-city walkabouts, novelty food, supa fly hip hop flow, helping theater magic happen, editing manuscripts, and being a ham at a dance club. It doesn’t take much to get me sharing things that excite me about life, math, human stories, theater, comic books, or traveling.
It's a really beautiful world.

I am pretty into polyamory (ethical non-monogamy): people who are kind and honest with each other should be able to grow all of their relationships, without any external pressure beyond making sure that they have the time and energy for the people they care about. Monogamy can be the right thing, too, sometimes.
I would be glad to talk about what I want from life, and I hope you're able to, too. Relationship structures are so interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
A while ago I moved to Buenos Aires on a week's notice. I built a life, had a great job, learned Spanish, and stumbled through the tango-- it was great. A year later, the riots and economic default made it seem like a very reasonable time to end that adventure.
I'm back rediscovering Boston.
This is my favorite city, and it feels like home. I'm taking stage manager gigs for circus and burlesque, and building up a neat career as a programmer.
I’m really good at
Ice breaking and sandwich construction.
Goofball hip hop dancing, proportionate-response punning, communication with friends/+, and erring on the ethical side.

I make pretty sold broccoli-mango guac and vegan chocolate truffles, too.

Update: The cast of the Slutcracker taught me how to twerk this Christmas. Look out, World.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Casablanca, Pulp Fiction, Terminator 2, High Fidelity, Harvey, Brazil, Amélie, The Great Escape, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Dawn of the Dead (1978 version) and every other zombie movie that wishes it were that good

Paul Simon, Flogging Molly, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Sonic Youth, Florence + the Machine, Massive Attack, The Rapture, Mos Def & Talib Kweli, M.I.A., and almost every cover of "All Along the Watchtower." Make me a mix tape and I'll swoon.

Books will take some thought. It'll definitely include some William Gibson, Will Shakespeare, Rudy Rucker, Jennifer Egan, and Kieron Gillian. I love Through the Looking Glass and F Scott Fitzgerald's prose. Hunter S Thompson is great, but I can't stand Kerouac.
I have a knee deep "to read" pile. Things there that I will never finish include: Finnegan's Wake, David Foster Wallace's anything, the last dozen Shakespeares, and Guns, Germs & Steel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- The length of all the roads in Ireland
- Bizarre hobbies
- Pretty science
- The best Billie Jean covers
(The specific links aren't terribly important, just the sense of wonder.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Calling lighting cues while keeping track of six circus performers, twenty juggling props, and the trapeze rigging. Or, ideally, out with friends for music, board games or dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No secrets, just stories you haven't heard yet.
You should message me if
Let's grab a drink if we might have some things to talk about. Or let's have an adventure if there's adventuring to be had.

I am hoping to find a primary partner, but I am not against any rewarding relationship in between. Let's just play it by ear?
The two of us