30 Somerville, United States
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My self-summary
I love people, music, situational irony, really nice speakers, outdoor cafes in the summer, sneaker-skiing across sidewalks in the winter, and city walkabouts. It doesn’t take much to get me talking about life, math, humans, comic books, travel stories, or dancing.
It's a beautiful world to explore. I'm usually pretty "ethically non-monogamous": Good people who are open and honest with each other should be able to grow all of their relationships as much as each is right for them, without external pressures or constraints. I'm not anti-monogamy; sometimes that can be the right thing, too.
I would be glad to talk about what I want and, if you can talk about what you want, then we can figure things out. If you're not great at talking about feelings or what you might need in a relationship... then we've just got some more work to do.
What I’m doing with my life
A while ago I moved to Buenos Aires on a week's planning. I built a life, had a great job, learned Spanish, and stumbled through the tango-- it was great. A year later, the riots and economic default made it seem like a very reasonable time to end that adventure.
I'm back rediscovering Boston.
This is my favorite city, and it still feels like home. I'm taking stage manager gigs for circus and burlesque shows, and solidifying a neat mathy-coding career.
I’m really good at
Ice breaking and sandwich making.
Communication in relationships (not hardly in pen-pal world), goofball hip hop dancing, and proportionate-response punning.
I make a pretty sold vegan chocolate truffle and broccoli-mango guac, too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Casablanca, Pulp Fiction, Terminator 2, High Fidelity, Harvey, Brazil, Amélie, The Great Escape, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Dawn of the Dead (1978 version) and every other zombie movie that wishes it were that good

Paul Simon, Flogging Molly, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Sonic Youth, Florence + the Machine, Massive Attack, The Rapture, Mos Def & Talib Kweli, M.I.A., and almost every cover of "All Along the Watchtower." Make me a mix tape and I'll swoon.

Books will take some thought. It'll definitely include some William Gibson, Will Shakespeare, Rudy Rucker, Jennifer Egan, and Kieron Gillian. I love Through the Looking Glass and F Scott Fitzgerald's prose. Hunter S Thompson is great, but I can't stand Kerouac.
I have a knee deep "to read" pile. Things there that I will never finish include: Finnegan's Wake, Charles Foster Wallace's anything, the last dozen Shakespeares, and Guns, Germs & Steel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- The length of all the roads in Ireland
- Bizarre hobbies
- Pretty science
- The best Billie Jean covers
(The specific links aren't terribly important, just the sense of wonder.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Calling lighting cues while keeping track of six circus performers, twenty juggling pins and the trapeze rigging. Or, more ideally, out with friends for adventure, music, board games or dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No secrets, just stories you haven't heard yet.
You should message me if
Let's grab a drink if we might have some things to talk about. Or let's have an adventure if there's adventuring to be had.

It's summer!