I am not a simple human being, but I live a fairly simple life. I am smart, dryly funny and a bit of an unapologetic workaholic, but the time I break away is very important to me and I genuinely try to make the most of it. I’m also fit and youthful - I have too much left to do in life to be otherwise! I have 2 twenty something daughters who actually like and are delighted to spend time with me (recently, this meant the 3 of us lying on the floor of the Mojave at 4 a.m. captivated by a meteor shower and a sky of stars the likes of which I've never seen before).
There is little that bores me, but every once in a while there is something that fascinates me. I can have fun on a quiet or raucous evening with friends; with an intellectually stimulating conversation or a sophomoric movie; or a sophomoric conversation and a thought provoking movie. I enjoy a list of outdoor activities that is endless.
Mostly, I aspire to be a basic fun-loving adult in the limited play time that’s available. I am blessed to have great, longstanding friends and I take full advantage of my urban neighborhood - BYO's, local rep theater, indie movie houses, summer concerts in Millennium Park, anything on or in the water, margaritas on the back deck. And anytime I can, I get away to what is both my “shrink’s office” and my “branch office,” otherwise known as my second home in the Indiana Dunes.
I would like to have a well-rounded grownup relationship with someone who is smart and funny and who thinks I’m smart and funny. Looking for a woman who is strong and independent does not mean that I am not caring, attentive and supportive. Beyond that, I have no real preconceived notions about what a partner or companion MUST be like.
Working on it - my interests and my potential.