64 Harwich, United States
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My self-summary
....basically I'm a good, GROUNDED, accomplished, smart guy who's reached a healthy 60 and feels around 45. Curiosity, adventure and kindness still drive me...... It would be great to meet someone new to date with a connection and who's also exhausted from putting energy into dating websites where most men ultimately cloak their desires really only for sex. I'm looking for more: a good man I can trust, understands empathy (wow, almost impossible to find), honesty, conversations and open mindedness.

......and I'm an easy going, kind guy with an amazing heart looking for a connection that's grounded in communication, laughter, honesty, intelligence, communication and fun. I want to meet an unselfish man with good values, an adventurous spirit, is kind, dependable and confident.

I'm more interested in who a person is rather than what he has. I find a depth of character and honesty very sexy.......and sex with intimacy works just fine for me. It's true being older has naturally lessened my libido but it 's still around along with great cuddling waiting to be given to a great among the incredible natural beauty on Cape Cod or anywhere.......
What I’m doing with my life
working on figuring out what's next........I'm lucky to be semi retired so for a fun summer gig I work at farmers markets here on the Cape. Since I've always been a landscape photographer I love spending my free time in the Blue Hour hunting for the visual that gets my attention.
I’m really good at
Listening and being a great, dependable friend
The first things people usually notice about me
are my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most independent films, PBS, healthy food, wide music range.
The six things I could never do without
discovering new landscapes to photograph
a healthy lifestyle
a few good friends
my love for animals (especially dogs)
spontaneous adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
being grateful for the variety of amazing experiences I've had...and what good contributions I can still make.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with friends, eating in or out or searching for an independent film to watch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sleep naked
You should message me if
You are trustworthy, drive your life honestly and feel a connection with any of what I've written, enjoy good conversations and are looking to explore the idea of seriously getting to know someone who thinks and acts outside the "usual" scene....