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My self-summary
First things you need to know about me, before going anywhere else: I am married to a transgender and bisexual man. I am asexual, and panromantic. This means that I have ROMANTIC relationships, with anyone of any gender or orientation, but NOT SEX. If you're looking for a sexual relationship with ME, please kindly move along. If you want a sexual AND romantic relationship with a guy, my husband might be willing. Ideally, we're looking for someone (or someONES) of any gender or orientation who can have a sexual relationship with him and an emotional/romantic relationship with both of us, but I'm cool with having a purely romantic partner for me only.

Now that that's out of the way, if you're still reading this and haven't been chased off yet, this is me: I am very outgoing, and friendly to everyone. I love to cook, read, swim, and take photographs, especially of people. I read mostly science fiction and fantasy novels. I love movies of all kinds, except Japanese horror movies and the American remakes thereof. As for music, anything goes, except opera!! I love Nickleback and Hoyt Axton the most. I spend way too much time on whisper and reddit. I am a Unitarian Universalist and a Faery Pagan, and my spirituality is the cornerstone of my existence. I used to play LARP and tabletop RPGs, but I can't anymore due to severe medical conditions that keep me in the hospital around 80% of the time. If you want more details, just ask. I rarely get offended about anything, unless you're deliberately trying to piss me off.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm fairly severely disabled due to my medical conditions, so I spend much of my time in the hospital, and am mostly homebound when I'm not. I make jewelry, spa items like lotions and soaps, tye dye clothing, and various other crafts. I'm obsessed with anything related to food, and am currently working on writing a cookbook. Looking to buy an RV sometime in the near future and go travelling around the Americas. I'm also working on plans to make a semi-commune somewhere in Oregon within the next 15 years.
I’m really good at
I am best at cooking, and crafts. I'm also told that I'm really good to talk to when people have problems, but that's the opinion of other people, and I can't confirm it myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing are my eyes, which vary between gold, brown, green, and black, depending on my mood. Not because of contacts either! Also looks wise, you'll notice I don't wear makeup unless it's a special occasion, like a funeral or wedding. Hell, I didn't even wear anything other than mascara, some eye shadow, and lip gloss to my OWN wedding, so that tells you how much I like it. Once you hang out with me a bit, you'll notice that I have a very sarcastic sense of humour, and most people don't get when I'm making a joke, so I sometimes end up offending people without meaning to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Books (authors): Anne McCaffrey, Mercedes Lackey, Jean Auel, Terry Goodkind, Isaac Asimov, Piers Anthony, Kate Forsythe, Andre Norton, Douglas Adams, Marion Zimmer Bradley
Notice how ALL my favorite authors are sci-fi/fantasy writers?

Movies ans TV Shows: Almost Famous, The Blues Brothers, Boys Don't Cry, Chicago, The Crow, Dark City, The Dark Crystal, Dark Knight, Dogma, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Fiddler on the Roof, Forrest Gump, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Kumare (look it up on Netflix; it's REALLY good!), Labyrinth, Lord of the Rings (all of them), The Matrix (again, all of them), My Fair Lady, Pan's Labyrinth, Paper Clips, Phantom of the Opera, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Rent, Ringworld, School of Rock, Serenity, The Sixth Sense, Star Wars (yet again, ALL of them), TransAmerica, The Truman Show, Weird Science, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Contact, World War Z, Z Nation, Shaun of the Dead, The Walking Dead, Bones, and anything on Food Network, especially Chopped, Cutthroat Kitchen, Guy's Grocery Games, and Good Eats.
I really love musicals, documentaries, and zombie movies.

I am currently obsessed with two different YouTubers who could be considered both shows and music, as they both do some of each. I LOVE Dave, aka BoyInABand, and Rhett and Link.

Music: Hoyt Axton, The Beatles, Jimmy Buffett, The Clash, Cutthroat Shamrock, Inkubus Sukkubus, Iris DeMent, Bob Dylan, Flogging Molly, Nanci Griffith, Metallica, Nickleback, Nightwish, Puscifer, Pearl Jam, Relative Viewpoint, Tegan and Sara, Tegan and Sara, Joni Mitchell, The Beach Boys, Jan and Dean, Clannad, The Pretenders, Albanach, Enya

Food: Indian, Japanese, Mexican, anything edible!! Sadly, because of my medical conditions, I exist mostly on smoothies, mashed potatoes, and baby food, with very little "real" food.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

1. My husband
2. Friends
3. Books and reading
4. Music
5. My laptop and phone
6. My pets - 4 cats and a dog, indoors, and the local feral and stray cats outside.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Food
2. What the hell is that song going through my head and who does it????
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on my crafts or the cookbook I'm writing. Sometimes, though I'm at a friend's house playing Cards Against Humanity!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have many medical problems, and am either a medical miracle or freak, depending on how you look at it. If you want to know more, ask me sometime.
You should message me if
Anything above sounds interesting, or ESPECIALLY if you're a Unitarian Universalist, or know what Unitarian Universalism or Faery Paganism is.
The two of us