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My self-summary
If you can't write more than one word or sentence please don't bother to write me. I will not respond to a "hi" or a "u r sexy". I'm only interested in intelligent and thoughtful people. Thanks

I'm a sex activist and educator who has a full poly plate, but knows that there are always other great people to meet and get to know. I read voraciously, Science Fiction primarily. I love good food, fine wine and odd movies like Grindhouse and Delicatessen.

I'm pretty full up in my polycule and I'm not actively looking for new partners and I'm always open to new friendships.

I am bodacious, political, and polyamorous
What I’m doing with my life
I'm semi-retired. I was the Executive Director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture (formerly The Wet Spot.) and the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture. I am currently the Development Director for the Center. My personal mission statement is to transform sexuality, replacing shame with joy. I'm also writing a book on relationships, specifically how to break up and remain friends. I also do relationship and sexuality coaching. I'm very busy and love it.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at making people laugh and public speaking. I'm also very good at my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my lips, my smile, my big ass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book of all times is Alice in Wonderland and Alice Through the Looking Glass. My favorite character is Cirocco Jones (if you know the books she's from you'll know my other favorite books.) Auntie Mame (the original with Rosalind Russell) is my favorite movie. Any music by Etta James turns me on, but probably my favorite song is "Have You Seen Her?" by the Chi-Lites. And there isn't much food I don't like, however Cuban is probably my favorite ethnic food. My total comfort food meal is Campbell's Chicken Noodle Soup, Baloney on white bread, with butter and Ruffle Potato Chips (in the sandwich).
Six things I could never do without
A good book, dark chocolate, my stuffed pig, my computer, hemp rope and my friends and lovers (do people count as things?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about transforming the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is nothing typical about any of my nights. Sometimes I'm beating on my favorite guy other night's I'm going to a play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
While most people think I'm heavy into BDSM (which is true) I sometimes like "vanilla" (well, maybe butterscotch)
You should message me if
you want to know more about me or if you own a red truck (I'm still waiting for the guy in the red truck)

Also note that I seldom IM and don't usually have it even on, so IMing me will usually not get a response.
The two of us