48 Menlo Park, United States
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My self-summary
I would love to find a guy who I could go anywhere and do practically anything with and share the best parts of life in a fun and loving relationship. I’m looking for a man to inspire and who will inspire me.
There is so much more to learn and enjoy from life's adventures - My perspective is unique, quirky, expressive and irreverent. I am easy going and adaptable. It’s easy to make me happy with a light touch, a sly smile from across the room, sharing a private moment.
Let me enjoy your deep masculinity, let's create a wildly romantic, open and honest relationship. I admire a man who is curious, who can make me laugh, and can tell me when he needs his space. Tell me the truth, and I will make you feel like a king!

I am fit, active and enjoy dancing, running, hiking, biking, water or snow skiing (not much of that going on these days, is there?), camping, climbing, working up a sweat! Let's go on a tomb raid! ;) I enjoy a good joke and irony is not lost on me, though oddly, I can be quite gullible.

I’ve had some amazing experiences and have formed deep relationships with people through school, medicine, travel, love. I have learned that some people pass through our lives for a season to teach us lessons that could never be learned if they stayed. It's all good.

I want to continuously grow as a person with a strong man by my side to grow with me. I would be happiest with an intelligent, creative, sexy, educated, romantic, attractive and present man, who I can respect, admire and adore.
What I’m doing with my life
I take time to tap into my creativity, dabbled in oil painting, took piano lessons, learned to spin fire (poi dancing). Most recently, I have taken up drawing.
This year will be my 5th return to Burning Man. So much beauty, creativity, and energy. It's not my 'way of life', but allows for experiences and growth. It's not just a big party, for me, at least! Through it, I became inspired to learn how to spin fire! (Pics in album). I am awed by the absolute freedom and creativity expressed, and always feel renewed after I re-connect with myself and humanity out there. It's a special place, but not for sissies!
I will try most anything at least once and enjoy discovering new places.. am amazingly adaptable.
I really love my job, I'm a pulmonologist for children. It's a lot of work, sometimes long and late hours, but I always try to maintain balance between work and social life. Work hard, play hard is my motto.
I’m really good at
Seizing the day, enjoying the moment, massages, I make a killer gumbo.
The first things people usually notice about me
My crystal blue eyes and that my hair color matches my eyes (you'll just have to meet me to see it!) my smile, energy and style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Infinite Jest and all of David Foster Wallace's works. The Life of Pi. The Book Thief. Outlander series.
Periodicals: Harper's Monthly, The Nation, and The Economist.
Currently reading about 5 different books.
Some movies/TV off the top of my head: Fargo, No Country for Old Men, True Detective, Homeland, The Killing

I enjoy the luxuries of sleeping in, relaxing with a great book, and going out to discover new restaurants - my favorite is Waterbar. Best oysters around, great atmosphere and awesome view of the Bay Lights!

I enjoy dancing, both participating in and going to watch performances: hip hop and modern or contemporary dance. Those athletes amaze me. Swing is my favorite partner dancing style, though ballroom and salsa are really pretty great.

I love music! Rock and alternative (new and 'classic' - whatever that means - it's still the best kind!), but also have an eclectic collection of electronica, meditative, some hip hop, pop, jazz (Miles and Coltrane), classical, etc.

All food is great, if you ask me, as long as it's cooked with innovation, intention, and flare!
The six things I could never do without
Creativity, Gumbo, Inspiration, connecting, love, independence, laughter and spontaneity! I appreciate giving and receiving affection and attention, I’m all about sensuality, and use all 5 senses liberally.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All kinds of things... politics, current events, my next tomb raid, my patients, how to be present and thoughtful, how to bring a smile to my friends' faces, how I would like to meet an honest professional man who has a sense of humor and appreciates the wild and crazy things life has to offer and knows what he really wants.
I also wonder just who can fix my ice maker.
And, what does it mean when people write 'taco' at the end of the OKC name???
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking either a Sazerac or a Perfect Manhattan somewhere. There are some really delicious rye whiskeys to taste - Redemption Rye my current favorite. Looking for a dance partner!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've started a meditation practice and while I am not religious, I honor the Creator of All That Is.

“What is essential is invisible to the eye. What is rightly seen is seen with the heart.”

The Master acts without doing anything
And teaches without saying anything.
Things arise and she lets them come;
Things disappear and she lets them go.
She has but doesn't possess,
Acts but doesn't expect.
When her work is done, she forgets it.
That is why it lasts forever.
You should message me if
If you think we might be a fit, I’d love to hear from you. Write me an email, and tell me about something you are terrible at! I’d rather hear who you really are, and not what you think I might want to hear. ;)
Let's share some stories. The future might bring wondrous changes.