I'm quite independent and not looking for someone to take care of me. Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way to get rid of me. I struggle with being given advice that I didn't ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.
I am ethically non-monogamous, heavy on the ethical. I love love, I love relationships, I love caring, sharing, cuddling, spoiling, crying, laughing, talking, and all the facets of real human communication. I love intimacy, connection, support, and growing together. I love deeply and with abandon. Importantly, I love freedom within my relationships. I don't enjoy explicit relationship hierarchies, and if your profile page speaks of your 'primary partner' I am probably not the person for you.
I am not afraid of relationships or commitment, because the kind of relationships I have are not scary or constricting. If you're afraid of them, maybe we have different ideas about what they look like. I'm not interested in casual sex or meaningless hooking up, so if that's what you're after, you can probably stop reading here.
My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting, thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're right.
I live in a small bungalow called Dudley and I have my own little garden and it never stops thrilling me to pieces.
I am an occasional singer and songwriter, and a something of a show-off when it comes to performance.
I do some life modelling, because having people make art out of you is a wonderful way to work with body issues.
I run a fun little event with a friend of mine: https://www.facebook.com/PolyamorousSpeedDating/
I love gardening, hiking, camping, traveling, cooking, cycling, and trying new things.
I was told by a friend that my profile reflects who I am perfectly, so turns out I'm pretty good at writing online dating profiles too.
Also, I'm a hugger. I do try to remember to get consent before wrapping myself around you, but if I like you, you'll clearly see my enthusiasm for physical affection.
I don't own or watch TV, although I have the odd program I download when I have time, usually some twisted comedy. I don't watch a lot of movies, but I tend towards anything I can't pick the ending of in the first 10 minutes. I have an issue with cheesy endings, or anything involving Adam Sandler.
Hugs, kisses, and physical affection
Hope and meaning
A Creative Outlet
Freedom and my independence