Being jealous, possessive, clingy or bossy is the fastest way to get rid of me. I don't like being given advice that I didn't ask for, or being told how I should or shouldn't feel.
After 5 years of doing the poly thing, which has been wonderful and growth-inducing, I no longer know where I stand on the issue of monogamy. I'm waiting for my next sign from the universe and to see where things flow. I love love, I love relationships, I love caring, sharing, cuddling, spoiling, crying, laughing, talking, and all the facets of real human communication. I love intimacy, connection, support, and growing together. I love deeply and with abandon. Importantly, I love freedom and honesty within my relationships. I don't enjoy explicit relationship hierarchies, and if your profile page speaks of your 'primary partner' I am probably not the person for you. I'm not interested in casual sex or meaningless hooking up, so if that's what you're after, you can probably stop reading here.
I'm an ENFJ and I have a secure to anxious attachment style. I'm done dating avoidants. I'm a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind.
My single biggest turn-on, hands down, is interesting, thought-provoking, open-minded intelligent conversation. I don't mean aggressive arguments or an obsession with proving you're right.
I am an occasional singer and songwriter, and a something of a show-off when it comes to performance.
I do some life modelling, because having people make art out of you is a wonderful way to work with body issues.
I run a fun little event with a friend of mine, although it's been a while since our last one: https://www.facebook.com/PolyamorousSpeedDating/
I do freelance admin for organisations I'm passionate about with a positive impact on this world.
I love gardening, hiking, camping, traveling, cooking, cycling, and trying new things.
I facilitate the odd workshop and dream circle.
Plant medicine is an important part of my life.
I was told by a friend that my profile reflects who I am perfectly, so turns out I'm pretty good at writing online dating profiles too.
Also, I'm a hugger. I do try to remember to get consent before wrapping myself around you, but if I like you, you'll clearly see my enthusiasm for physical affection.
I don't own or watch TV, although I have the odd program I download when I have time, usually some twisted comedy. I don't watch a lot of movies, but I tend towards anything I can't pick the ending of in the first 10 minutes. I have an issue with cheesy endings, or anything involving Adam Sandler.
Hugs, kisses, and physical affection
Hope and meaning
A Creative Outlet
Freedom and my independence