53 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary

Welcome to me. :-) The highlights:
I have a sense of humor, I'm social and introspective, am dating with a desire to grow a long-term committed relationship with the right man who is truly available to grow this should it blossom. If you genuinely sense there will be a mutual connection, please email, I will respond.Thanks for nice messages from the young guys, but that's not where I want to invest time and energy.

Here's a heavenly day: Wake up slowly... to warm sunshine and blue skies snuggled next to the man I love being with, take an easy morning stroll at the water, with a yummy breakfast before or after. Beach cruiser biking, walking, or go on a friend's boat. Maybe there's an outdoor music/art festival, quiet time with an art project or writing, joking, kissing, enjoying time together. Night time stroll and drink with a view of sunset, healthy fresh food, live music, dancing, conversation, relaxed, more... :-)

Still reading?'s more:
I am healthy. Physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually.
I'm creative, curious and expressive - touch and kissing are a powerful love language.
Spiritually connected – not into structured religion.
Career has been successful yet not my focus now, with flexibility to be with you.
I believe in healthy, loving, sexy, fun monogamous relationships that grow and develop.

The man that I tend to be attracted to is
a youthful spirit and active
happy and healthy (see above for definition)
honest, kind, supportive
intelligent and curious
enjoys the ocean and music
and desires to grow a long-term relationship

I've traveled to about 20 countries, married 20 years, divorced in 2008. My 23 year old son is finishing Masters degree at Florida State - we travel to connect about 3x a year.

Years since birth are a foreign number that don't fit my body, lifestyle and spirit - so I adjusted due to filters arbitrarily preventing connection. It's so strange to know by end of January 2016, I'm 57?

Chemistry and relationships need to be in person, so do fun and exploration! Email to explore and meet soon to know. Thanks for reading.
What I’m doing with my life
I moved here in 2011 and love it. I moved for the vibrant healthy energy, beautiful coastal scenery and weather. My work is with leadership teams. I also write and speak, but work is no longer a big priority. More importantly, is balance, fun, growth, and meeting you.
I’m really good at
Being authentic, engaging others, enjoying life, my field of work, kissing, touching, laughing at your jokes and showing you my feelings and affection.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my energy and presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nonfiction personal exploration and growth.

Love many types of music! especially live: Indie rock, reggae, R & B, more. Mumford & Sons, Of Monsters & Men, OAR, Florence & The Machines, Dave Matthews Band, dancing music! Food: Mex, veggie, sushi, Thai, fish of most kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Nature: Especially the ocean, flowers, fresh air
Passion, romance, love with my special mate
Live music and dancing
Connections with important people in my life, especially my son
Walks at the ocean
Deeper conversations that explore, help us grow, and laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How grateful I am for the life I have. How beautiful nature is. Having my loving mate by my side. A lot more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Happy hour with friends, then out listening to music or at a special event/party, or ... simply a walk on the beach and romantic sunset, glass of wine, snuggling with my special man.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hummmmmm. I'm pretty expressive. Get to know me. You'll know a lot!
You should message me if
you are fun-loving, a youthful spirit, honest, intelligent, affectionate, communicative, available to grow a relationship if it develops, and really read and connected with what I wrote above.