33San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
Genuine and easy-going bay area dude who isn't afraid of the truth.
I consider myself pretty straightforward, I like to be open and honest, and appreciate it when other can do the same. I'm not quick to judge, and I always believe in second chances. My biggest pet peeve is probably when I see someone say or do something just to secretly test someone else, rather then just asking what they want to know, acting on assumptions is for lame-o's. When i said easy-going it was an understatement, it's a double edge, sometimes I can't even tell when I am making someone uneasy because it takes so much more to upset me. On the plus side, though, I can always find a way to enjoy myself and stay optimistic in any situation. I Have been told that I am quick to forgive, I've never given it much thought, I just kinda go with my feelings.

I am a pretty competitive person and a very quick learner. With a little practice I can be good at anything. I have a very dry sense of humor, and intentionally bad puns will never stop being funny, at least i hope they won't. I love games that involve others and can jump into new activities with a reckless, almost naive, bravery. I can always find a way to have fun as long as there's someone else involved, although I rarely will let someone else win (I would hate it if some one else just let me win). I enjoy challenges, and can shine under stress. I really enjoy creating, doesn't matter what; drawing, baking, crafting, building, knitting, I am at my best when i can get my hands on something and be creative. I love camping and hiking, though these days I don't get that many opportunities to. I moved to San Jose from Monterey for work, I really miss being able to just pick a direction and end up on a beach, but luckily Monterey isn't too far a drive. I don't consider myself restless though, a lot of times my plans for the evening just involve watching a movie, playing games, eating out, or just relaxing/loafing around with friends and loved ones. The world would be a better place if people could learn to just slow down and take it easy.

I am Laid back, willing, and ready for anything
What I’m doing with my life
Working 10 to 7 monday through friday, so i only see the sun on the weekends but I am trying to make sure i miss out on as little as possible. I really enjoy movies and I am a bit of a gamer I'll admit it, especially when i have nothing better to do. When I have downtime I can usually occupy myself with some kind of art or crafting idea. I've been into ultimate frisbee and disc golf lately. Trivia on mondays at my favorite pub is always a good way to start the week. Right now I'm looking for someone to cuddle and relax with, who doesn't get all embarrassed when getting to know someone, someone on my team, ya know?. Wakeup, daydream, work, daydream, sleep, dream, repeat. Mainly I've just been trying to save up money for traveling. I think I was put on this earth to make someone happy, I'm just having a hell of a time finding out who.
I’m really good at
I have been told by close friends that i am really good at staying calm, helping others relax, learning new things, laughing, cuddling, helping others relax, listening, telling it like it is, taking no for an answer, and helping others relax. Personally I think I am really good at creating things, or figuring out how things are made, or how to fix said things. It could be that i just really enjoy that though. Last but not least I am SO GOOD at keeping secrets for people, one of my closest friends made up a word for it.
The first things people usually notice about me
No clue, it would be nice to know though.
Probably how white I am haha
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmmm haven't read that many books actually. I liked ender's game back in the day, i just finished neverwhere and american gods, and I just finished a book called The Road. I do love to read, I just need someone to hand me the book and say 'hey, read this'. Even if i wouldn't normally, i would read it just to figure out why they recommended it at the very least.

Aliens, The Incredibles, Laputa/Castle in the Sky, The City of Lost Children, The Life Aquatic, Wall-E, Memento, The Host, The Adventures of Baron Von Munchausen, Stranger than Fiction, The Blues Brothers. I am sure there's more but that's what comes to mind.

Music: Queens of the Stone Age, The Gamits, Tool, The Aquabats, Xploding plastiX, The Octopus Project, Gogol Bordello, System of a down, The Strokes, Bikeride, Cake, Radiohead, pretty much all over the place on this one.

Food: Bread, cheese, meat, fruit, and dark chocolate. Pretty much food in general. Oh, and all 5 of those count as food i swear, don't even argue.
Six things I could never do without
1. Friends (I can only talk to myself for so long before i would lose it)
2. My hands (Make whatever joke you want here, but i really don't know how i would live without them)
3. The color green (That's probably a weird thing to list, but it works on many levels)
4. Chocolate (maybe i could do without this one, but i would definitely consult a doctor before i do anything crazy like giving it up)
5. Water (no joke here, had a doctor consult me about this one)
6. This little spec of light inside me i can't seem to stamp out, so i think i must need it, i don't know what to call it though.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lots of things, different from day to day, i have a pretty long attention span so i don't get bored very easily with any particular thought. Sometimes it can be bad when i end up dwelling on something like a regret, but at the same time great when i am thinking all day about someone, or something i am looking forward to. Lately all I seem to be able to think about is the future and how i can make it mine!
On a typical Friday night I am
Falling onto a warm couch and watching a movie, or possibly going out for dinner with someone if I'm lucky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have very busy hands, i don't care though, i love it.
Nothing makes me feel closer to someone than touching, it may sound petty but i guess it's just the way i show/feel affection.
You should message me if
,you consider yourself a patient person.
If you aren't afraid to communicate and don't act on assumptions.
If you have a sense of humor that can handle sarcasm, brutal never-ending waves of it.
If you read my profile and you just want to hang out and relax.
If you can show me something i haven't experienced.
Although in all seriousness, you might as well just do it, what's the worst that can happen, really.
The two of us