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My self-summary
I am really bad at playing hard to get. I don't like those games anyways.

I'm a morning person. I love to wake up early, sit on my couch, watch cheesy morning tv (i.e. disney shows), eat cereal, and drink coffee.

On my bus ride to work, I watch youtube videos. Lately the theme has been flash mobs, but I am also getting into clips of Ellen surprising guests with gifts. (I laugh, I cry)...

I'm spastic, energetic, social, and can be shy. I am very, very sarcastic and dry in my humor. I tend to talk too much. I love coffee. I don't cook. I can count on one hand the number of times I have been to a grocery store in the past 12 months. I love DIET COKE. I don't do drugs and dont drink alcohol. I do love to dance and love to have fun. I love food. I love walking around aimlessly without a real destination. I also love discussing the flaws of our nation's "leaders". I sometimes go on walks just to feel like I've accomplished something. I watch A LOT of bad movies. I especially LOVE bad horror movies.


I tend to keep busy so I have very little free time, but would love to find someone that I would want to make free time for.

If you understand the joy of sitting on the patio of a coffee place, just relaxing, we would get along just fine :)

I'm not here for hookups.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a large health insurance company full time, am on the board of an LGBT non-proft, and am an on call counselor for a crisis line. I do not define who I am by my job, I define it by what I am making of my life.
I’m really good at
Listening to people, kissing, having an amazing time, remaining positive, treating people like I've always known them.

I am also good at being direct with my opinions. Some people would call this bitchy.... I call this ENDEARING. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
my glasses
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book of all time is 1984. I love all types of movies including dawn of the dead, harry potter, saved, pulp fiction, shortbus, love actually etc etc etc. I also love National Geographic specials. I love all kinds of music, but absolutely love anything poppy and upbeat. Food- i love food. All types of food.

In regards to shows--- I <3 musicals! I love American Idiot and Next to Normal and SPRING AWAKENINGS and RENT... give me a rock-opera and i'll give you my heart! :)
The six things I could never do without
my friends,
my family,
my self respect
Diet coke,
the chicken ranch wrap with fries from pick me up
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how am i to get from where I am in life right now, to where I want to be in the long run.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays, I usually go to dinner with friends and then head home to just chill :) OR i'm making a silly video like this one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1fPLQYXjiM&feature=g-crec-u
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I joined the gym for the sole reason to have access to the whirlpool spa on a regular basis. I'm Poz also, so if u have fallen for the stygma and prejudice, pass on by. :)
You should message me if
If you like to take last minute trips to new york or disney world you should definitely message me :)

U aren't a republican, u don't shop at walmart, understand the joy of Life Cereal, u aren't too self-absorbed and think we might click...go ahead...i'm not an a-hole....promises (also, have your head on your shoulders, pretty please). If you drink often or do drugs often, we'll prolly not be a match....i respect myself, and prefer to only speak with those that respect themselves....bitches... ALSO... I'm really looking for something serious, so no games none none none #kthxbye