39San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
I'm on OKC begrudgingly. I'd rather meet someone in real life but alas it is 2017. I am looking to date - either casual or serious relationship.

I hate when the first question asked is what do you do and it's the person wanting to know what my job is. I do want meaningful work but much more important to me is having a full life. Friends and family are very important. So is my cat!

I like hiking and backpacking and being outside.

I moved to San Francisco 5 years ago for grad school and it's home.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to have a full balanced and meaningful life. I read somewhere recently that your life has 4 rooms: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual and it's important to spend time every day in each. That sounds right to me!
I’m really good at
talking and listening to others
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. They also say I seem calm, but that's for those who don't know me really well!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For movies, I have different categories for favorites. If they're the ones I go to over and over, my tastes are really unrefined:
Movies: The Back to the Future Trilogy, Pulp Fiction, Goonies, Shag, The Sound of Music, Dirty Dancing, Tommy Boy, The Wedding Singer, Never Been Kissed...

Music: John Denver, James Taylor, Bruce Springstein, Cake, any and all musicals, Cat Stevens, CCR, Pearl Jam, the Eagles, Ben Harper. I pretty much stopped listening to new music in 1999. I like most types of music: country, classic rock, oldies, show tunes, some rap, 80s rock. Not so much hard rock/punk or rap except my favs from the 80s and 90s.

Food...I like most types.
Six things I could never do without
spirituality, friends, nature, sunshine, family, and books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future. I'm working on focusing more on the present moment. I also think a lot about politics and war and other social injustices.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a belly button piercing. No tattoos.
You should message me if
you want =)
The two of us