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My self-summary
I'm sitting here watching the sunset, thinking how beautiful it is and how lucky I am to be able to see it. Yesterday there were two bald eagles flying by my window, like a present. I like noticing those moments of everyday beauty. I make a point to try and show up for my life.

When I meet you, it would be nice if there were a spark, maybe humor or attraction or just curiosity and openness showing up in our eyes. Of course, I'll likely feel both excited and nervous, what with how we human beings are wired.

There's more. Maybe you're interested in finding out. . .
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a counselor at a college. Learning new things. Sitting zazen. Cantoring Taizè. Staying in touch with people I love. Making space for romance and intimacy.
I’m really good at
Helping people when they feel anxious and overwhelmed. Helping them find a way to succeed in their lives based on their own goals. Living passionately and playfully. Making commitments and keeping them (including "yes" and "no"). Standing by friends even in hard times. Laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
A sparkle in my eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To Kill A Mockingbird. Pema Chodron. Thich Nhat Hahn. All kinds of music. Food that tastes like sunshine and food that takes me all over the world.
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Kindness. How to live kindly. Hopefully more time living it than thinking about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
A typical Friday night? Driving to Portland sometimes. Hanging out with friends sometimes. Reading. Catching up on chores. Listening/singing/dancing to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a fairly private person, but love the intimacy of knowing and being known.
You should message me if
You want to create loving intimacy that brings out the best in everything it touches. Or you like tea, music or walks in fresh air. Or laughing.
The two of us