I'm a very curious person.
I look for the positive in any interaction and try to understand the negative when it comes up.
Although I have been brought up in a Christian background, I am very open and accepting of other points of view. Actually I'm curious about other beliefs.
I tend to focus on who you are and what your thoughts and beliefs are and compare them with my own thoughts and beliefs.
I'm looking for a soul mate. Someone who is on the same wavelength as I am . A person who is focused on cooperation in the relationship rather than competition. I want someone who is as interested in finding out about who I am and what I think as I am in finding out who they are and what they think. I'm looking for someone who comes to the relationship with curiosity and a willingness to be open about who they are.
- being helpful- seeing what needs to be done and doing it.
- designing things / renovations.
Patricia Evans' "Controlling People", Karen Armstrong's "Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life"
Movies: "As Good As It Gets", "Dances With Wolves", and a really old one "Friendly Persuasion". I'm sure there are others I can't think of right now.
Food: I steer clear of dairy products and highly spiced foods, unfortunately I'm a chocolaholic but I love vegetables.(which, I think, saves me from becoming diabetic).
I'm not vegan mostly because of the intolerance of dairy and spicy foods.
Family and Friends (to be with and talk to)
Walks/Hikes (in the Forest, on the beach, or around the city)
Time to myself (to sort out what I feel/believe/think about an event or a new way of seeing things)
The opportunity to help others in some way.
- what brings peace to a person, a group, or a situation.
- why some people do things that put other's lives at risk.
Cleaning up / doing the wash / or reading a book.