I am an educated, motivated, career woman and Army veteran. I am well traveled and enjoy exploring new places. My children are grown, and now I'm looking to enjoy this next phase of my life. I am alcohol, drug and disease free and do not frequent the "club scene". I am versatile. I am a "girly girl" that enjoys manicures, pedicures, spa dates and massages but can also enjoy the day at the gun range, sporting event, fishing hole and camp site. I don't mind getting dirty. I believe in "natural beauty". I have healthy blemish-free skin, wear very little makeup, and natural hair styles.
I believe in constant self improvement. My motto is "If you're not learning, you're dying"...I enjoy going to retreats, workshops, seminars and conventions to gather as much information as possible so that i can be a better me. I aim to be the type of mate that I wish to attract.
My home is my haven and when I'm not at work or traveling I kick back at home and enjoy my blessings and the fruits of my labor.
I am seeking that "Harlequin Romance" experience. Waiting on the ONE to experience those "can't wait to see you", "I miss you when you're gone", " butterflies in my stomach at the site of you or the sound of your voice", " Fireworks when we touch" moments. My desire is in not only LOVING you with all of my being, but "being in love with the very essence of who you are", YOUR SOUL.
I would love to meet a gentleman that is not afraid to be pampered (contrary to popular beliefs "real men also enjoy spa dates and retreats) as well as enjoy attending intellectual self improvement activities and events. Seeking an educated, spiritual, career minded gentleman. Someone that loves God, family and community. Someone that enjoys community service activities and that desires to contribute to making society a better place...I believe that God's will for us is to be of SERVICE to others.
I desire the company of someone who is light-hearted, able to laugh, relax and enjoy life, and is comfortable sharing his feelings and discussing issues. Communication and honesty are essential when building a friendship/relationship.
He must understand that passion, romance and intimacy are demonstrated in countless ways that don't always require getting undressed. Creativity is a TURN ON....Foreplay can last indefinitely and is more EROTIC than the final physical act. He has to have the ability to make love to my mind and spirit, and my body will surely respond.
My friends would say that I am loving, caring and loyal to a fault. I Love God, but despise "churchiness"( made a new word...lol). I love to worship and fellowship, but despise the dogma, and politics of organized religion. Spirituality is a must, but not so "religious" that you are no earthly good.
Please be self motivated and have life/career goals. Must be secure enough that is not threatened, or intimidated by an educated, motivated, successful, beautiful (inside and out), career-minded woman. I desire a mate that understands the concept of unity, equality and teamwork in the relationship, when either party succeeds, excels, wins, we both benefit.
I am an adrenaline junkie. I LOVE rollercoasters and crazy rides at amusement parks. I ENJOY, traveling, reading, bowling, movies, live music, concerts, sporting events, cultural events, interior decorating, home remodeling, flea markets, yard sales, antique shopping, watching basketball(high school particularly) and football. I also like golfing, but due to a shoulder injury, I haven't done so this past year. I Love warm weather vacations, anywhere there is water, beach or desert is fine with me.