33 Melbourne, Australia
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My self-summary
I'm a sensitive, strong fat femme. My politics are left and my feminism is intersectional. Social but an introvert. Comfortable in my skin I am body and sex positive with a playful and cheeky side.

I am looking for sparks and meaningful connections. I'm open to something casual but ultimately looking for something serious.

My interests include reading, travel, art, music, theatre, films, dancing, podcasts, yoga and meditation, astrology, spirituality, social justice, gender and sexuality, politics and international affairs.
What I’m doing with my life
I studied international development, gender studies and international relations and now work in public policy.
Trying to express my creativity through making art and being crafty.
I’m really good at
Being quick to laugh, intense conversations, sometimes both at the same time
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I find this really hard to answer because I like so many things but...

Anything David Sedaris to make me smile, Geek Love, murder mysteries for beach reading, other fave authors - Maya Angelou, Barbara Kingsolver, Dorothy Alison, Douglas Coupland and Katherine Dunn
I'm currently reading Americanah, Shrill and the Farseer trilogy

Movies/TV - But I'm a Cheerleader, Dirty Dancing to name some all time faves but I love all sorts of things - indie, queer, docos, thrillers, suspense and drama
House of Cards, Girls, Project Runway, the Jinx are shows I've recently watched or am currently watching.

My musical tastes are pretty varied but to give you an idea currently in high rotation are anything by: FKA twigs, Lykke Li, Grimes, Daughter, Tycho, Alabama Shakes, Rihanna, Susanne Sundfør

Podcasts I'm really into at the moment include Another Round, Dear Sugar, The Heart, Love and Radio and the old faithful This American Life

Food - all kinds - Mexican, Italian, Thai, Vietnamese in particular. Oh, and ice-cream.
The six things I could never do without
Something to write/draw with
Ice cream
Comfy shoes
My passport
Close friendships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Identity, embodiment, intersectionality, desirability, invisibility, femme-inity, sexuality, social justice, personal growth and development, the pursuit of creativity vs security
How to live in the present whilst learning from the past and making plans for what's next
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a great (or not so great) movie or tv show, drinking whisky or dancing the night away.
You should message me if
You are emotionally intelligent, open, authentic and passionate.