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My self-summary
Let's be honest. I think that's all any of us really wants. I've read many super cool kick-ass profiles in the past, and tried to make my own uber-cool too, but that's not who I am.

I'm like you. I'm not one thing. I can't define myself by how much I love Game of Thrones (which I do) or don't like coffee (never drunk a cup).They're both irrelevant. We're not defined by these little likes and dislikes.

The more I define myself, the more I become separate, a thing, competing... when in truth I know and feel we all have far more in common than what separates us. And all we seek - all I seek - is oneness, community, connection, in the safety that I can go back to being myself however defined, however felt, after that connection.

I like my personal space. I love it. I spend a lot of time working on my novel, meditating. But I love to match that with being with someone intimate. It really balances me out.

Maybe you feel the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on my second novel. I've written screenplays and magazine articles in my time:

I love to explore different cultures, different ways of thinking and being in the world, sometimes alone, but sometimes with someone special to share the amazing views, risky rock climbs and beautiful beaches with.
I’m really good at
All that's important is we connect and there's no trick or formula to that. We'll figure it out.
The first things people usually notice about me
How tall I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Of Human Bondage. Amazing.
Anna Karenina (along with most late 19th century Russian literature).
Pretty much all Radiohead and The Beatles.
Real Italian ice cream and real Neapolitan pizza.
Stewart Lee's stand-up. Tony Law too.
Six things I could never do without
My bike - gets me all over London (or whever it is I'm living).
Love... and let's be honest, sex, especially when there's real connection.
Herbal tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The comedy and tragedy of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
There really isn't such a thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book with those I trust. Ask me genuinely and I'll share a few pages.
You should message me if
You feel inspired, sense a smile on your face, or just curiosity after reading what you've read.

PS - Don't just click the "like" button, please. Send a smiley face, a wink, anything. I'm human like you.
The two of us