39 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Congratulations! By viewing my profile you have demonstrated that you have great taste... or you're checking me out after receiving a hilarious, possibly awkward, yet interesting message in your inbox!

If I were advertising myself on ebay, I'd write something cocky like: "Romantic gent with an artistic disposition searching for lover to adore and debauch,” but this isn't ebay, so forget what you've just read...
What I’m doing with my life
Back in London after a seriously long jaunt, promoting my new novel. I've also written a selection of screenplays and magazine articles in my time:

When I'm not writing I run a massage and meditation camp in Spain once a year at the Nowhere festival.

I love to explore different cultures, different ways of thinking and being in the world, sometimes alone, but sometimes with someone special to share the amazing views, risky rock climbs and beautiful beaches with.
I’m really good at
Giving massages. I've been praised on two continents. ;-P
Cooking. Sadly, my achievements here are not quite as renowned, though I try my best.
Making you feel better about yourself. Despite my bravado, I am a good listener and meditate a lot. I teach Reiki too.
Making new friends.
Building things. I've built a kitchen in the desert - literally.
Outside-the-bedroom sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
How tall I am, a certain smile, then my more sensitive side as I open up to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Of Human Bondage. Amazing.
Anna Karenina.
The Little Mermaid... for the kid inside of me.
Pretty much all Radiohead and The Beatles.
Real Italian ice cream and real Neapolitan pizza.
Game of Thrones.
Stewart Lee's stand-up.
The six things I could never do without
My bike - gets me all over London (or whever it is I'm living).
Love... infused with beautiful and crazy sex.
Herbal tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, how this experience is such a miracle, so incomprehensible, so profound and mundane too. The comedy and tragedy of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
There really isn't such a thing. On any given night though, I might be writing, laughing out loud to my favourite film or book, enjoying a marathon phone call with a friend, talking a long walk in the park or dancing like crazy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book to those I trust. Maybe I'll let you read a few pages when we meet. ;-)
You should message me if agree with the below:

"I want an incisive, inquisitive, insightful, irreverent mind. I want someone for whom philosophical discussion is foreplay. I want someone that I can reach out to and touch, someone I can cuddle with and cry "Wow!", rise with and go places I've never been."