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My self-summary
Hello, welcome, well met. Human being seeking companionship of an/other human beings for shared mutual interests, positive development and sharing of honor and respect. 100% real male/man seeking 100% real female/woman. Recently set myself on the path of bettering myself and that lead me back to school.

Me: Playful, authentic, real, mindful, present, aware, ambitious. I will write poetry for/about you. I will listen to you and show affection regularly through honesty and (hopefully) passion. Willing to share of self and take of others sharing, INTJ (if that means something to you). Constantly working to better myself. Not DTF, or hookup, I am not your stud.

You: Authentic, real, inclined to sharing of yourself and being mindful of the sharing of others. Not looking for a hookup, or DTF. Already working to be the best you can be. Human, female, aware of your form of caring expression. Willing to listen and communicate with other human beings.

I learn things about myself every day. I couldn't begin to put even a portion of who I am, or what I believe in here in this box. I am looking for a long lasting and meaningful relationship with a female. One build on the foundations of communication, trust, honesty, honor and respect (as those words are defined, not your interpretation of them).
What I’m doing with my life
Getting myself together, being myself, collecting memories and living. Bettering myself every day, and hopefully with every action. Going back to school, working and making sure my future will be better than my present.
I’m really good at
Being myself and not being a jerk about it. Caring about and for people, everyone I know complains that I'm too compassionate. Being a good and true friend. I believe in the truth, and living the truth, no lies. Making witty jokes, being a good supporter. Holding intellectual and involving conversation. Shooting, and wilderness survival. Being a good student and teacher.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my energy, my eyes, my height, maybe my name or how I speak. I get a lot of comments on how I speak... I find this silly. Since when did speaking well become a complement worthy trait?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A few of mention...

Music: The Foo Fighters, Nine Inch Nails, Frank Sinatra, Coldplay, Disturbed, Sick Puppies, Missy Elliot, The Prodigy, A Perfect Circle, Incubus, Tool, Tenacious D, Musical Scores, E.S. Postumous, Linkin Park, Queen, Pendulum, Mindless Self Indulgence, Caravan Palace.

Books: Lord of the Rings series, Rhapsody series, Ender's Game, Starship Troopers, Hook, The Dark Tower Series.

Movies: Hook, Starship Troopers, Aliens, What dreams may come, Phantoms, Cloverfield, The Matrix trilogy, Star Wars, Star Trek (I've actually seen ever Trek movie... *sigh*), Serenity, Lord of the Rings, Shawn of the Dead, In the Mouth of Madness, Hot Fuzz, Avatar, The Mask, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back. I love movies, I like too many to list here.

T.V. : I don't own a television, I keep up with some shows I like though. The Venture Brothers, Firefly, The Boondocks, Bleach (manga and anime), Naruto (more the manga than the anime), Dr. Who, Supernatural. I'm a fan of the Discovery, and History Channels.
Six things I could never do without
Spirituality, Hope, music, something to write on, martial arts, creation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What happened to all the real people? Why is it so exhausting giving energy to fake or unreal people?

"The answer is never the answer. What's really interesting is the mystery. If you seek the mystery instead of the answer, you'll always be seeking. I've never seen anybody really find the answer, but they think they have. So they stop thinking. But the job is to seek mystery, evoke mystery, plant a garden in which strange plants grow and mysteries bloom. The need for mystery is greater than the need for an answer.." - Ken Kesey

"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we
find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
— Dr. Seuss

The truly creative mind in any field is no more than this: A human creature born abnormally, inhumanely sensitive. To them... a touch is a blow, a sound is a noise, a misfortune is a tragedy, a joy is an ecstasy, a friend is a lover, a lover is a god, and failure is death.
Add to this cruelly delicate organism the overpowering necessity to create, create, create -- so that without the creating of music or poetry or books or buildings or something of meaning, their very breath is cut off...
They must create, must pour out creation. By some strange, unknown, inward urgency they are not really alive unless they are creating.
— Pearl Buck

Physics, no joke here, specifically quantum physics. String theory is pretty damned interesting, and it has nothing to do with underwear, or maybe... it might heh (a random physics joke, I'm not sure how I feel about this). Love and all its splendor. Why a pine tree is called a pine, who named hot, hot, who named cold, cold? What lead them to calling it that to begin with? Otherkin, and therians, witchcraft, and shamanism. Martial arts, things I wish I was doing but aren't, people I wish I knew, but don't, and how to meet more people. Why other people have a hard time being themselves. Zombies and Ninjutsu, Wing Chun Kung Fu, firearms and how to build a better stage 5 zombie shelter than the one in the survival guide. Poetry, and various manners of self expression. Why do people put so many stigmas on life? So many ways to be medicated, diagnosed, labeled, so silly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my friends, reading, playing a game, practicing martial arts, absorbed in some soul moving music, dancing, cooking, looking for new friends, or interests, surfing the internet, teaching someone martial arts. Or running myself ragged with working, or school. Looking for things to do that don't involve being intoxicated as a prerequisite.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a nerd. I'm a table top and live action role player. I build a mean magic deck. I think everything in life worth having is worth being fought for. I think the more worth it something is, the more work has to go into getting and appreciating it. I feel like I was born in the wrong era. I like swings, and go to the park to swing when feeling down. I own a beanie baby, a fox named Sly. You want some more you should probably talk to me. I used to have a tongue ring. If you want to talk to me, I would advise not being diametrically opposed to firearms... just saying. I'm a huge sucker for authentic, honest, people of all types. I enjoy the company of real people who enjoy being themselves.

I don't know if anyone will read down this far. If you did well done! Thanks for showing real and genuine interest. I'm not sure that I will find what I'm looking for on this site, but for the moment I will cast my lot to the winds so to speak. I am not opposed to meeting someone here, and feel that needs to be said. As a last and parting bit of information if you are a queen in me you will find a king. If you make me your king in you I will find a queen. This doesn't mean I'll spend my time trying to "make" you into something/someone.. you know what I'm not going to explain this. Give it a shot, you might find yourself surprised, you might find yourself overwhelmed, but if you find yourself up to the challenge then maybe, just maybe we can set the world on fire and dance in the flames.
You should message me if
You want to start a fire in the souls of people you know. You aren't afraid to share your fire, and aren't afraid to be burned by the fire of others. I want to spend time with people who show through their actions and through their eyes that they want me not only around but in their life.

Do NOT message me if you are averse to reality or honesty.

You think I'm interesting or want a new friend or just someone hang out with and talk with about random crap, or interesting things. But bring a good mind and make sure you keep it open. Your looking for an activity partner in a vertical capacity.

I don't like dealing with fake people, or perpetually fearful people or people who don't know themselves. I've done it enough in my life, I'd like to move forward. You know that initiative is something for everyone not just the government.

Or you think you can handle me lol. I'm open to talking with anyone, just send me a message.

You have the time to actually get to know another person. Or you have gardening tips you can share with me. Lastly, I don't have time or money to waste on fake people. Don't waste my time, or yours please. :)

You are an artist, you have unbridled passion you are willing to share.
The two of us