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My self-summary
Hmm... what can I say?

I am honest and open. You will always hear the truth from me (tactfully, of course). Compassionate and understanding, and will do anything for friends and loved ones.

I am very open minded, and always up for learning new things. I'm sure you've heard it all a million times before, but it's no less true. :p
I've been told that I'm quite intelligent. Just don't ask me to prove it first thing in the morning. I might be able to jump out of bed and be ready for the day in minutes, but it takes my brain a few more to get out of zombie mode. lol

I'm a friendly, outgoing guy. Very much into meeting new people and making friends, and enjoying good conversation. I've also got a great sense of humor. Admittedly, it might be a little screwed up at times, but I am often leaving my friends (and others around us) in stitches with my antics.

I'm also a Dominant, and have a wonderful girl who identifies as a slave and little. I don't need someone who's submissive, I'm quite happy with finding someone to enjoy a more vanilla relationship with (after all, I do have that part of my life covered). But if the lifestyle is important to you, then I definitely respect that and would be happy to explore it with you.
We're a poly couple, but finding someone to be with both of us is not a requirement. It would be awesome of course, but a one on one relationship is just fine with me, as long as the proper respect is given to my girl. And if you can't understand how that respect thing works, I really don't have time to waste with you.

I enjoy various activities, indoors and out.
Reading, writing poetry and short stories, romance, movies, games (both the video and board variety), taking walks, eating out, spending time with friends, mini golf, quiet time at home... all sorts of things. My friends and I generally like to do whatever strikes our fancy at the spur of the moment. Museums, parks, go-karts, sight seeing, fine dining, etc... I go where my mood takes me at the time.
I also enjoy travel. Seeing new places is always a wonderful. And I'd love to travel to Japan and China someday.

Shout it out loud! I'm a geek and I'm proud. Geeking out playing video games and such (especially with friends, I'm a big fan of co-op) is a great source of entertainment. Board games are great too, though I prefer the more complex ones and don't generally go for Monopoly. :p
I also enjoy classic pencil and paper RPG's. I design games myself, and I'm creating a CCG in my spare time. And when I can I put together Gundam models (it would be easier if I had tiny hands). Relax watching Doctor Who or various other sci-fi and fantasy shows and movies. It's all good.

I've done a lot of volunteer work with the CNIB.

I'd really like to meet someone who I can connect with. Someone intelligent, witty, outgoing, who's up for trying new things. And of course, having shared interests and hobbies is always a good thing. If you're a gamer, all the better. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Learning new things, making new friends, and generally enjoying every minute of it.

I graduated from Sheridan College in Oakville studying journalism. I've had some great experiences with the course as well as the work I've done since. I've written for Comics & Gaming Magazine and am currently in charge of the gaming section of Aesthetic Magazine.
I’m really good at
A surprising large array of things, from making people laugh to making them whimper (in the best of ways). ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm often told that I have "bedroom eyes".
Still not exactly sure what makes mine such. :p
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorites books? Well, I do read a hell of a lot... but some of my favorite series would be:

Tales of Redwall
R.A. Salvatore's Drizzt series and Highwayman series
Ed Greenwood's Elminster series
Vampire Earth
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Wheel of Time
Good Omens

There's tons of other one off books that I love too...

Favorite movies is another huge list, but I'll try to keep it to some of the main ones:

The Princess Bride
Army of Darkness
Godzilla: Final Wars
Star Wars (original trilogy)
Mamma Mia

As for music, I don't listen to anything specifically... mostly just as I'm driving. I like a little of everything. From rock to classical to euro...

Food is easy. Sushi. I LOVE sushi. :)
A huge fan of authentic Chinese cuisine as well. Love going for dim sum.
Six things I could never do without
Good books
Video games :p
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home, usually gaming.

Though I've been playing the whole Pokemon GO thing, mainly as an excuse to get more exercise (cause naturally if I'm out walking for hours playing a game, it's not technically exercise). :p
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not a private person. I'm fine with opening up to just about anyone. I could talk about embarrassing childhood events, of stupid mistakes I've made in my life, or the most sappy romantic gestures I've made. :p
Everyone goes through things they would have liked to have done differently, but it's all a part of me. Whatever I've dealt with, I've gotten over it, and learned from it. It's given me strength, and helped make me who I am.
You should message me if
If you're genuinely interested in getting to know me, and seeing what the possibilities are, then I'd love to hear from you.

Friends are always great to have. So if you think we could have fun hanging out together, give me a shout. I'm just as happy making a new platonic friend as finding someone to date.

If you're a geek or a gamer... well, you're already scoring points with me. ;)
And I'm always hoping to meet someone intelligent, adventurous, geeky, sensual... and who can appreciate a guy with a romantic bent.

Definitely contact me if you're into the BDSM lifestyle, and if you are in favor of closed and committed poly relationships, and understand that poly does not mean open or easy. And if you're interested in learning more about anything to do with the lifestyle, I'm always happy to share my experience. That said, I'm definitely open to one on one relationships if you've no interest in joining a couple, as long as you know that my girl's not going anywhere. (You'd be surprised how many think they can "steal me away"). :p

I'm up for a chat, would love a debate, and could always use a new friend. Anything more... well, let's just see how it goes. ;)

I'd also like to point out that I don't have an A-List account. So while it's awesome that you "like" me, I won't know who you are unless you actually give me a shout at some point.
The two of us