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My self-summary
Recently divorced (but not at all bitter) BBW ready to get out there & enjoy life again. A few of my favorite things: live music, old records (have a small collection myself), conspiracy theories, kb, coffee, & stimulating conversation.

PLEASE NOTE: If you wouldn't feel comfortable reading what you plan on writing me in a message out loud to your mom or grandma, I certainly don't want to read it either. I'm not by any standards a prude, but until we're on familiar terms, let's keep it polite, ok?

ALSO IMPORTANT: If you're married or in an open relationship or otherwise just looking for kicks w/ strangers from the internet, I kindly ask you to please PISS OFF...thank you & have a nice day :)
What I’m doing with my life
Playing catch-up financially speaking, setting educational & career goals, accepting that it's still too soon to accomplish much in the way of achieving those goals, reminding myself to be patient and just enjoy things I missed out on while I was married, like the company of friends and live music
I’m really good at
Cooking (even with limited ingredients on hand), making people laugh & feel appreciated or special. I also write some poetry. Recently wrote my 1st one entirely in Spanish. If you understand Spanish, perhaps I will share it with you.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair & my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fiction: A Confederacy of Dunces, But Beautiful, Kinflix, Rosewater and Soda Bread Non-Fiction: Powderburns: Cocaine, Contras & the Drug War, Armed Madhouse, Don't Start the Revolution without Me, Bush Junta, The New Pearl Harbor Revisited, The Beauty Myth

Movies: Godfather, Goodfellas, A Bronx Tale, Brain Candy, Nacho Libre, Amelie, Ano de Mariano, Conejo en la Luna, Sleepdealer, Amoresperros, Idiocracy, Moonrise Kingdom

Music: Johnny Cash, Loretta Lynne, Ramones, Dead Kennedys, Ministry, Motorhead, Neko Case, Julieta Venegas, Cafe Tacuba, Calexico, Uncle Tupelo, Son Volt, Wanda Jackson, Sarah Vaughan, Billie Holiday, Link Wray, Amy Winehouse, Connie Francis, Frank Sinatra & Dean Martin

As for tv, I no longer own one, but when I did, I was a fan of Breaking Bad, Walking Dead & especially Mad Men. I also miss Adult Swim...loved those Squidbillies!

And last but certainly not least, FOOD:
Italian, Greek, middle eastern, Chinese & BBQ (ooh...Chinese BBQ is pretty tasty, too)
Six things I could never do without
My friends, my cat, music, books, laughter & COFFEE!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How we're losing more & more freedoms in the U.S. every day, how as a country, we are becoming more & more despised bcuz of every administration's foreign policy since Eisenhauer left office, the military industrial/prison/surveillance & pharmaceutical complexes ruining our health & our environment while trampling on our liberty & bankrupting our country. Also, adorable baby animals, silly old album covers, & cakewrecks, bcuz although I like to stay informed about everything I just mentioned, my very sanity depends upon frequent breaks from the doom & gloom!
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging w/ friends, or at home, listening to music & doing housework
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I always know when I'm being lied to, but I rarely confront anyone about it. However, I'm great at ignoring communication from ppl I think are full of it & not worth my time.
You should message me if
Not sure why I'm not allowed to edit the age range, but fyi, I would prefer to meet men between the ages of 37-49.

Still, if you are at least over 30, please feel free to msg me if we have at least a few interests in common, you are gainfully employed with no baby's-mama-drama (if u have kids that's ok, I just don't want your ex stalking me), don't mind that I have a lot of male friends (no super jealous types need apply), & are actually capable of being patient about waiting until I'm ready for sex.

I would *especially* like to hear from hispanic men with impressive facial hair who play a musical instrument and/or own a working turntable.

You should also msg me if you happen to be that guy who cruises down Oltorf on his bike while his cat rides on his shoulders...I have so many questions for you!!!!
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