55South Plainfield, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a creative and passionate Christian with a variety of interests, including music, movies, TV, animals, and conversation. I'm romantic, spiritual, smart. Humor is important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, graphic design, music, songwriting, playing guitar and keyboards, screenwriting, and singing. I've worked for ad agencies, radio stations, design firms, etc. I teach ESL to some members of our Chinese church.

I'm passionate about animals. Besides taking in abandoned cats, I've raised a kitten from a few days old (she's now 14 years old!) and have rescued a number of feral cats.
I’m really good at
Making music, making people laugh, making carrot cake, making people think, making out.

Conversing, writing, kindness, playing guitar, singing, guessing the top answer on Family Feud.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly, straightforward and down-to-earth. I occasionally get complimented on my dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Bible, My Utmost For His Highest by Oswald Chambers, C.S. Lewis

Music: Mindy Smith, Alison Krauss, Steely Dan, Shawn Colvin, Jonatha Brooke, Dawes, The Weepies, Ingrid Michaelson Bruce Hornsby Kathleen Edwards, Laura Story Todd Rundgren, James Taylor, Sara Groves, Secret Sisters, Jackson Browne, 1970s pop/rock

TV: Anything on Investigation Discovery, Jeopardy Bob's Burgers Special Report with Bret Baier, Homicide Hunter: Lt. Joe Kenda, Burn Notice, Law & Order, Flea Market Flip, Family Feud, Mr. Ed, Green Acres, Seinfeld, How It's Made, Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee, 24HR Records

Movies: Anything by Alfred Hitchcock North By Northwest, Vertigo, Strangers On A Train, Eternal Sunshine, of the Spotless Mind, Election, Wristcutters: A Love Story, Big Fish, Laura, The Devil and Daniel Johnston, Wallace & Gromit, This Is Spinal Tap, The Apostle, Tender Mercies, Hard Candy, Winged Migration, Smashed, Kissing Jessica Stein, Sweet Land, Next Stop Wonderland, The Puffy Chair, Little Miss Sunshine, Lars and the Real Girl The Lives of Others Finders Keepers, Gifted, documentaries, indie dramedies, 1940s & 1950s B&W – especially film noir

Favorite actors: Philip Seymour Hoffman, Robert Duvall, Hope Davis

Favorite comedians: Jim Gaffigan, Dave Chappelle

Food: turkey dinner, mixed greens salad, scrambled eggs (not too dry, not too runny – moist but fluffy), pizza, fruit juices, ice in most drinks (I really like ice), French green beans, white chocolate macadamia nut cookies, coconut, cinnamon muffins, mint chocolate chip ice cream, Italian sub sandwiches, my own carrot cake, Lifesavers candy.

I've had my share of gourmet and ethnic fare, at expensive restaurants in NYC and elsewhere, but given the choice, I prefer simple down-home cuisine. I'm blessed to enjoy what I cook and bake.
Six things I could never do without
God, family, friends, cats, music, and laughter.

Some material items I could do without, but would like to have:
my homemade iced tea, my Mac, Internet access, guitars, shorts, my pickup truck, cotton blankets.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creative ideas, writing projects, and opportunities to help people and animals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m pretty sure the hokey pokey is NOT “what it’s all about.”
You should message me if
You're compassionate, cute, smart, fun, sexy.

I am open-minded and not set on a particular physical "type," but I do like curvy women, girls-next-door, and girls with glasses.
The two of us