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My self-summary
I hate trying to describe myself, and I've finally figured out why! I am too complex to describe in a short paragraph. But I'll try not to write a novel either.

I am:
a middle child
a crier
a Grammar Goddess
a girly girl
a "bro" - on occasion
worth your time

I'm not:
good at being on time
a doormat
a size 2
a morning person

I am a complicated person. I am a mix of innocence and maturity. I have ignorance about a handful of things, but am by no means not intelligent. I have had a lot of experiences not typical to 26 year-olds.

I fall in love way too fast. It takes me very little time to know if I will love a person, activity, TV show, anything. And once I fall, I am lost forever. I don't fall back out of love. I have learned how to move on from it though.

I have a lot of strength. I am strong in bad situations. I am strong in my forgiveness of others.

Below are some quotes that really tell about me:

"The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love, and to be greater than our suffering." - Ben Okri

"If you can't make love to my mind, my heart, and my spirit, I'll never have an orgasm anyway. "

"You use absurdity in a way that is poignant and meaningful." One of the nicest compliments I've ever gotten, from my sister.

"The greatest waste in the world is the difference between what we are and what we could become." -Ben Herbster

“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” - William Shakespeare

"If we knew each others secrets, what comforts we should find"- John Churton Collins

"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.” - Anatole France

"Knowing is rarely a prerequisite for hating" --- Julia Quinn

Aside from that, I am extremely honest. Feel free to ask me anything. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm studying Psychology. I am going to be a sex educator/activist, (much like Dan Savage.) I also have a part-time job. And I help my family out as much as I can.
I’m really good at
-forgiving people.
-finding the beauty in everything and everyone.
-Tetris. I can pack like no one else.
The first things people usually notice about me
is my smile. It lights up the room. :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Birdie by Taylor Ryan
-The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle
-The Bridgerton Series by Julia Quinn
-any Historical Romance

-McLintock! (and all other John Wayne)
-The Terminator
-Shall We Dance
-Most romantic comedies, comedies, dramas, and action. I don't do horror movies at all.

Oh, too many to list..
-Big Bang Theory
-The Office
-FRIENDS (Favorite show EVER)
-The New Normal
-Criminal Minds
-Design on a Dime
-Most sitcoms, some Britcoms, some crime dramas

I like a little bit of everything. I absolutely hate Macy Gray, and bluegrass.
-Kelly Clarkson (She's more talented than people give her credit for.. Look up her covers.)
-Sarah McLachlan
-Alison Krauss (No words.)
-Breaking Benjamin
-Some pop (not much in the last 5 years or so..)
-Some rock (no death metal.)
-Acapella groups

-Southern cooking
-Pot roast is my favorite thing ever!
-Chicken, prepared almost any way
-Potatoes -in almost any form
-Coca Cola ftw.
-don't like Mexican or spicy stuff
Six things I could never do without
1. Love
2. Music - It soothes my soul.
3. Good food
4. Friends
5. Rain
6. Good sex, specifically orgasms. ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. My brain is constantly running, thinking about what's going on in front of me, what I would rather be doing, how to eradicate homophobia, and everything else.

I daydream a lot about what I want my future to be, and how to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
-hanging with my friends/family
-on a rare occasion, out dancing
-looking for some shenanigans to get into ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book. You can ask me anything. :)
You should message me if
-You like to smile.
-You are intelligent.
-You have a sense of humor.
-You are generally awesome. :)
-You are a nerd. Or a grammar Nazi.
-You're not going to immediately ask me for pictures.
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