65 Grover Beach, United States
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My self-summary
I'm widowed. I miss loving a man and being loved in return by him, physically and emotionally. (I visit Anaheim and Oakland quite often.)
(And I've been debt free for a number of years.)
(You have to click on photos several times to see 7 I have posted.)

My desire is to fulfill the call on my life with His choice of husband at my side. I'm widowed and miss loving that special man for me and being loved in return, sharing life with that special someone and being passionate about it. Chemistry is essential as well as emotional sharing. I had a soul mate before and I know there is another one in my future.

I enjoy dancing, watching the waves crash on rocks, going to the gym. Oh, and I love to sing!!! I'm an excellent cook but enjoy dining out and seeing live theater.

I admit when I'm wrong and can laugh at myself; and I hope you can do the same! I'm really enjoying this season of my life and have been healed/set free from emotional baggage.
What I’m doing with my life
I retired from a very fulfilling career and now travel, write, and speak before groups nationally and occasionally internationally; and I wrote monthly articles for a magazine for over 3 years. Spoke in Peru, So. America, for two weeks in March 2010...Before that in Taipei, Bangkok, Philippines, AZ, MO, NC, CA & am invited to speak in Netherlands. UPDATE: Published my FIRST BOOK July 2011!!! One person read it and ordered 7 more for gifts! Another was only going to read one chapter and stayed up until she finished the book! Proceeds are used to donate my books into prisons in CA, AZ, and ILL.
I’m really good at
I’m a good listener and even shy people tell me I'm easy to talk to and open up to me. They sense my compassion and interest in their well being. I love to encourage people to become all they can be. I enjoy meeting new people and find each person is unique and special and interesting. I've helped many understand the love of God and how He has a wonderful destiny and fulfilling purpose for each person. Both men and women say I look younger than the age I put down; I'm older than the age I wrote, but even men in their 40's who I met in the gym wanted to date me! Both my parents looked much, much younger than their ages. My photos are recent.
I want to encourage and inspire my man to become all that God created him to be!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and that I have an aura of joy, peace, and optimism and am an encourager.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav movies oldies Two for the Road (Audrey Hepburn, Albert Finney); Period of Adjustment (Jane Fonda, Tony Franciosa) - Moonstruck, Patriot, Brave Heart, Harry Meets Sally, Notebook -- movies that explore characters in depth so you care about them!

I mostly enjoy biographies of people I admire but also enjoy Steinbeck's varied style of writing. My favorite of his is his little known Burning Bright.