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My self-summary
I've been all over the world, mostly on climbing or hiking trips and always solo. I'm ok with being alone because it's easy to meet people along the way.

I'm a bit of a dance maniac.

I'm the kind of person who wants to connect on a deeper level. I need mental stimulation. Let's not talk clothes. Let's talk passions. How did you get here and where would you like to be? Tell me what books you read recently or what music stirs your soul. I promise I'll listen.

Better yet, tell me where you've traveled.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a self employed neuromuscular massage therapist. I have a small office on the peninsula.
I’m really good at
Road biking, mt. biking, rock/ice climbing, surfing, running, hovering, smiling, eating, not eating, watching the clock.
The first things people usually notice about me
I always make eye contact and I smile ALOT. Not a big dumb smile with no thoughts behind it but one of those knowing smiles that you just can't quite figure out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I recently got a turntable again so I've been listening to my old collection of Cannonball Adderley and Nina Simone records. mmm just like an old friend.

I know a book was good if it keeps me thinking after. Recently I read So Long See You Tomorrow- truly beautiful.
I love short stories, anything from Sedaris or Rakoff and prefer fiction, especially if it's funny like Miranda July.

Currently, I'm reading How The French Invented Love - a book that explores the complexities of love as given to us by centuries of French literature. I only picked this up because I'm going to Paris for Xmas. I'm shocked by how much I like it. I told a friend, I've fallen in love with a book on love. I am a cliches cliche.
Six things I could never do without
Why 6 things? Not 7?

I can tell you this: if I was left with no ideas or outlets for my passions life would be pointless.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The world and my place in it. I've come a long way from my roots.
On a typical Friday night I am
Generally I'm out with friends. Movies, dancing, whatever. I don't like to stay in. But, lately I've been doing a lot of cooking. It's a meditative thing for me. What can I make and for whom?
I realized I was spending too much time by myself so now I have people over for dinner. In fact I made a surprise Yom Kippur to go dinner for one of my clients as a gift. Doing that made me so happy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I eat pot my ass goes numb. It's a neurological thing. I know of two other people who have had the same reaction.
Go ahead and laugh.
You should message me if
I have to tell you though that I'm extremely selective in my choice of friends and lovers. Basically, I want to talk to someone who makes me laugh,really hard, you know like when your face starts to hurt. And someone who makes me think, really think about everything. Life is too short.
The two of us