60Brighton, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
I have taken the 4 wheel drive route through life up until a few years ago, but have learned to cruise on the highways. Instead of being the one on the railway line, I am now a fully fledged train driver! My life has been an amazing journey and still is, I am enjoying the ride. I have done the ins and outs, overs and aboves, but, with experience and time, have learned to chill, but that does not mean I am not open to new experiences and adventures. I am a little rebellious and eccentric, and interested in the alchemy of existence.
I have had various careers, as I need change and variety in my life, but that does not necessarily extend to friends and partners. I can be silent and still, and also animated and vibrant. I am many things.

I am a loyal friend, adventurous, and just a little crazy.
What I’m doing with my life
I have bought a house boat and am enjoying living on a magical tidal river with my cat, Rocket Man. I am usually a dog person, but due to my living circumstances, enjoy the company of a rescued cat. I am employed and sometimes work long hours in a rewarding profession which can also be trying, as it is people based. I would love to and am planning to embark on a journey of adventure, hopefully for a year, to India (Himalayas), Siberia and wherever else life may take me. (trying to save up)
I am always seeking my higher purpose.
When I have time off, I like to indulge in the pleasure of my home, my friends and family.
I’m really good at
Cooking, ...I like all kinds of cuisine. I am a loyal friend and have a way of inspiring and motivating people (including myself) to better things (sounds pompous, but it is true). :)
If I set my mind to something, I usually do it, even though it may mean jumping in at the deep end. I am impulsive, not sure if its a good thing but hedging is not my thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I will ask a few people and let you know. I am tall, 5'11", and people have told me it is a "presence" they notice, not sure about that one, though (ha).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I am a practising Buddhist, Alchemist and Seeker, so I read many books relating to these. But, I also love books like The Lord of the Rings, Women who run with the Wolves, The Magus, 1984, Steinbeck, Fowler, Dostoevsky (spelling), Ann Rand, Tom Robbins, Hans Christian Anderson. Herman Hesse etc.

Music: My taste in music is vast: I like anything from Nina Simone to Marilyn Manson, Pink Floyd to ZZ Top, The Platters to Vivaldi, Iron Maiden to Hawkwind, Miles Davis to Su Bo, most 70's rock and metal, Punk, but not too into Rap/HipHop and Pop.

Food: I will try anything once, my favourite is seafood. I do like a great steak though. Love Japanese food. Not mad about mince and mash.
Six things I could never do without
My friends, my family, my home, nature, the sea, swimming, passion for life and music/books, forests, mushrooms, mad and lovely people, honesty. (hmmm, more than six...there are a lot more than six......)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Our reason for existence and how to find ultimate peace, I think about those I love. About my loved ones and their happiness, and how to improve and develop myself as a person. What next I want to achieve.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking forward to socialising, having a lovely glass of red wine and great company. I also love the sea and the forests, the deserts and the bushveld, but most of all I love the misty forests. Oh, I like picnics and Harley Davidsons. Just enjoying life without restraints that society and work insist upon
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a little crazy. :) Is that bad? Is it crazy?
I don't particularly like procrastination. Make up your mind Godammit.
You should message me if
You are genuine, sincere, a little crazy, and wish to find out whether we have a common interest. Perhaps we will be fortunate enough to enjoy shared experiences and have a lot of fun! Hopefully we will be thankful we did. I would prefer to not waste my time with wishy washy.
The two of us