Radio 4 regales me at 0630 to get me out of bed, I usually fall asleep with it on too. Voracious reader, i'm a bit dorky and likely to know a little something about almost everything (quantum physics though, is unlikely). My mouth is foul and my humour is darker and children are best not around me, lest they pick up naughty words.
I've travelled and lived abroad - so speak a number of languages to varying degrees. Working on Welsh at the moment - understand it mostly very well but speaking is more difficult.
Essentially, I'm getting a bit older and I want to find someone to settle down with. Someone to share the highs and smooth out the lows, have a laugh and make me feel like all of this is worth something. Not into open relationships particularly, been there, done that, didn't suit me - as with most things, I'm willing to negotiate.
I own a house with my brother and so thoughts have turned now for the first time to DIY, home insurance and gardening and I no longer feel like I'm a kid winging it in an adult's world.
I enjoy singing (and music in general) immensely and I'm pretty good at it. It's the only thing I'll brag about. Honest.
I'm studying a masters in international development too.
I'm usually out singing at least four nights a week - makes it difficult to date, but I'm making more of an effort for a better balance.
Movies: Przesluchaine, La Haine, American Beauty, The English Patient, The Laramie Project, Angels in America.
TV Shows: Ab Fab, Desperate Housewives, 10 years younger, RuPaul's drag race, The Mighty Boosh, Kath and Kim, The Golden Girls, Frasier, How clean is your house?.
Music: Jazz, Classical, French Café Music, Polyphony, Boards of Canada, Royksopp, Coldcut, David Morales, Portishead, Air, William Orbit, Nightmares on Wax, Lindstrom & Prins Thomas, Freemasons, Robyn, Beyonce, Girls Aloud, Mercan Dede, .
My Collection of books
my middle finger (for sticking up at people)
social legitimacy and gender constructs
attempting to come into Cardiff for a safari around the gay wildlife.
You're interested in meeting up - going for drinks or dinner
You're bored of casual sex and want some intimacy and a relationship with someone who is motivated by something other than money, power and status.