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My self-summary
"When the truth is found to be lies, and all the joy within you dies, don't you want somebody to love, don't you need somebody to love, wouldn't you love somebody to love..." From The Jefferson Airplane. I thought it appropriate in these Humpty Trumpty times.

An honest, direct, Uninhibited, very progressive leftie. "Communication is the Best Lubrication..." in all aspects of life and is a key ingredient of Love, along with mutual trust, Respect, Support; accepting/celebrating differences as well as similarities, awareness and minimum of judgment and criticism; I'm non-traditional in most of my outlook toward life. For example, concerning gender roles, I prefer to date treating each other as equals: I ask you out, you ask me out, we ask each other out; I pay for you, you pay for me we pay for each other; we open doors and initiate our interactions equally. My feelings here stem from the 60's and The Women's Liberation Movement. While at the same time we are thoughtful, considerate and romantic with each other. I'm just not one for supporting traditional dating roles. I don't mean to imply here, keeping score; just paying attention. I feel that this enhances our humanity and could open the door to further communication and intimacy; which is a good thing, don't you think? Intimacy = Into-me-you-see...

I'm an eclectic adventurer: massage, skinny dipping, hot springs, like Cougar in Blue River, mostly organic vegetarian, spent many years in public/community radio hosting/producing jazz music programs and also loved creating eclectic, spontaneous, "free form" programs doing just about anything with a variety of genres, spoken word, live programs...etc.. Now involved with co-creating a new FM, non-commercial, home grown community radio station in Eugene; western horseback riding, archery, bike riding, shooting pool, softball, walking arm in arm, travel across the street or across the world, improv music from a jazz bebop foundation, blues, rock, Motown, Doowop, world, etc., "notes". Love comedy too: Richard Pryor, Chris Rock, George Carlin, Robin Williams, Lily Tomlin, Whoopi Goldberg..., Striving together to be more motivated by Love than fear... Let's be in touch...Inviting a stable, Healthy, Available, HWP, communicative partner from the heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Hangin out with friends/making new ones, sharing a variety of activities: helping get on the air, horseback riding, when I can, supporting live music whenever I can, shooting pool, going to movies, out to dinner, pursuing personal growth, especially including, interpersonal communication...Imagining a world based more on Love than fear... "Some say I'm a dreamer but I'm not the only one..." "Imagine...", John Lennon, "A Love Supreme" John Coltrane "Music's meaning to life's understanding..."
I’m really good at
Communication, singing harmony, massage (giving and receiving)
seeing the big picture as well as the little one...understanding/celebrating jazz and other "notes", life and living love and loving...
The first things people usually notice about me
I believe it's my eyes and my mustache.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Biographies: The Ultimate Experience (Jimi Hendrix); Muhammad Ali, Miles (Miles Davis); Chasin The Trane (John Coltrane); My Life As A Radical Lawyer, (Williamn Kunstler); Robin Hood by (JC Holt); Wyatt Earp by (Casey Tefertiller); Other: My Child My Self, (Stan Dale); Murder At The Conspiracy Convention and Other American Absurdities, (Paul Krassner); Gesundheit, (Parch Adams); Ecotopia, (Ernst Callenbach); Something Good For A Change, (Wavy Gravy); The Man Who Listens To Horses, (Monty Roberts)
Music: Improvised acoustic (From Bebop jazz roots), 60's - 70's rock, soul, blues, Motown, World, most "notes..." least are opera and country; dig skillful creativity, though, no matter what genre.
Six things I could never do without
Communication, laughter, intimacy, LOVE, Sex, massage, fun, organic vegetarian diet, (though not 100% carved in stone), sincerity, honesty...MUSIC
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Human Interaction, our global lack of loving touch and how increasing that could enhance world peace along with mutual acceptance and respect for all of Earth's life in all it's forms; opening the "right"/"wrong" and "black"/"white" paradigms... "All You Need Is Love", my friends; horseback riding, other ways to have fun, my health and keeping in good shape, though I need a little work in that area at the moment; Good conversation...eye to eye, heart to heart, being genuine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually home, hangin out but not all the time. I like visiting friends, going to concerts, hot tubs, massage, out for dinner, movies, streaking city hall...singing "You Ain't Nothin But A Hound Dog..." lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Private, hmm.........
You should message me if
If your chimes are any way
The two of us