22 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I like things to be good. A fuzzy blanket in a warm bed with icy cold rain playing a melody on my window. A pet cuddling with me while I read. Playing a video game in a cushioned chair. Dancing to high tempo music until I can't stand. Laughing, playing, enjoying. I want more happiness in my life.

I have no requirements for a partner, no list of things I need you to be. My only wishes are compatibility and communication. Some relationships don't work, and that is just a fact.

I may be relatively young, but I have done and seen a lot in my years.

Do not mistake my openness for apathy.
Do not mistake my kindness for weakness.
Do not mistake my boundaries for cruelty.

I reply to most messages that come to me, as long as they are more than hi/hey/what's up sexy.

I am NOT looking for sex/one night stand/to be your booty call.

The next step is up to you, are you brave enough do it?
What I’m doing with my life
I have just gotten my bachelor's degree, and I have a pretty good job.

I want to do good with my life; I want to help people. I currently have a job that does that, but I want more.

I want to travel and see the world, but I also want a place of my own.

My basic life goals (place to live, a pet, good computer for internet/gaming, tattoos) are small, my other goals (travel/multilingual me/volunteering/love/free time) are somewhat larger.
I’m really good at
Social interaction
Learning different languages
Some arts
Occupying myself
The first things people usually notice about me
How talkative I am, how gay and open I am, and how affectionate I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Just so many, mostly fantasy, sci fi, mind benders, and stuff about addiction and mental disabilities.

Movies: There are so many out there. I like my movies like I like my books.

TV shows: My range varies from trashy CW shows to Game of Thrones to Orange is the New Black. I watch based on shows, not genres.

Music: So ridiculously varied, I don't like genres, I like songs/artists
The six things I could never do without
Superficially: (In no particular order)
1) Awesome food
2) Internet
3) Television
4) Video-games: (Portal, KotoR, Skyrim, Dragon Age, etc.)
5) Music
6) People
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, the past, my plans, human interaction, linguistics, books I could/should be reading, video game strategy, things I wish I could do more often.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends or watching tv.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am secretly a hopeless romantic, and I love to do things that make me happy, regardless of judgement.
You should message me if
If you want to. I reply to almost all messages, but please be nice. I will be nice to you if you are to me. :)