41 Carbondale, United States
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My self-summary
Hello ( : Well I would say I'm a fun out going woman that loves making new friends easy to talk to, I'm straight forward I tell it like it is / smartass woman . If I like u ill tell u no games. I have a good sence of humor but hate to be teased. I'm can be senitive, emotional/stuborn when I know I'm right an will be ur best friend if treated the same I believe in fairness .so don't be selfish or take advantage of my kindness , I love spending time with my son an I help my mom out by driveing her around when needed to.I'm very independent but love a handyman for hard jobs an ocaisional yard work. Im looking for a guy to put me ahead of his friends at important times in my life, but not his kid mine comes 1st in my life so I wouldn't exspect it from them .would love to be part of the family meaning I love the idea of family sitting down together for dinner. if u hav kids great let's all hangout get to know each other ! I don't want to be the girl on the side, an Left out of your life, if u feel the same look me up☺
What I’m doing with my life
Well I'm working on bettering myself .I've had a lot of negitive people in my life trying to bring me down in the past .The reality is Being around negitive people is like a bad addiction, you want to quit an get away but they keep u sucked into there web of misery an its hard to get away , Its like a fly caught in a spider web u fight an if ur lucky an strong enough you get out ! Just something I've realized about people , I'm looking for a man to build a life with me so far ive been unsucessful ! I've noticed Lots of guys just want to be free, not attached to someones life as a whole what's wrong with u men today ? What's wrong with wanting to settle down an live as a couple together in the same house , just because u live together doesn't mean u can't have alone time for yourself to or nights out with the guys or the girls ! Why does commitment scare so many of you away ? I'm planing a future for me an my son I'm taking care of my mom a lot right now she's been sick! I'm curently still out of work like a lot of people so im helping my family atleast it takes up a lot of my time ,but would like to find something to do part time .I see myself as a creative free spirted person, that is really a positive optimistic person just beat up by life ! I enjoy learning new things an seeing new places, Sometimes I take on to many projects an get stressed out . Im in search of a good man to ground me an encourage my strong points, not my weakness an support me both emotionaly an physicaly. An so far on this site all I've found are self involved insenitive jerks either looking to get laid or just want to text an never talk on the phone or meet for a date , an the ones I do meet are liers saying they want to go out again talk for like a day then disapear ! I'm done with the BS games. So if u take the time to read this an are serious about meeting someone to build a life with , I'm strong willed an kind of independent like doing things myself . But not apposed to help from the right person .Update : my mom is doing better but still can't drive herself : an my job search continues hope to have good news soon ! sadly my moms eye has become worse again so I'm on shofer duty when ever needed ! Pray for us she will get well the surgry she had really didn't improve anything much she still has problems !😕 I keep praying things will improve for my mom .
I’m really good at
Helping others with there problems,while at the same time not giving up on my own . I've learned alot of new things lately an that you're never to old to reinvent your self ! An that I'm good at being optimistic an learning from my past experiences !!☺
The first things people usually notice about me
How easy I am to talk to ! My personality an passion for learning, my eyes , An I guess some guys notice my long legs an my But. I've been told there nice ☺
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I'm not much into reading books but as a kid I did enjoy daniel steels book summers end! Movies: Love romantic comedies,ocaisional action flick Hate horror movies. Enjoy going to wine tasteings, picnics ,carnivals, an the beach Music: concerts, love journy,bon jovi,U2,fleetwood mac , most 80s music, I also enjoy alot of curent stuff to, some country music,some rap, Love to sing karaoke alone or duet with someone. Love going Danceing, an hanging out with my son on the weekends when he wants to teenagers if u have 1 u know what I mean . Food: well i enjoy pasta, Tgi fridays ! Ninas for bites , an who doesn't enjoy a good pizza favorite pizza places are gourmet slice ,an roma's . Eat wings occasionally, I love to bake! I can cook as well have a few faves I'm good at !! Love milk chocolate!! That's basically me you want to know something else just ask ☺
The six things I could never do without
My son, my mom, my pets, friends , an a good man to love me for me !! Still working on the last one ☺
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything !! How to improve my life an those around me. And will I ever meet someone that can be both my Best friend an my Lover ! ☺
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm at my sons football games during the season ! Well my fridays are free again ! He graduated high school .so im either home watching tv relaxing, or out seeing a friends band play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Not answering this till I know people ! But will admit 1 thing that I feel frustrated in my search to find love . But I think most of us on here do ..
You should message me if
If u can anwser my ?s about why men behave the way I said in earlier comments. Your interested in building a friendship or to date either way is good with me, I would like to have more friends right now I'm tired of feeling alone ! even when I'm with someone if u know what I mean !! Im looking for someone to talk to. the men in my life now are to complicated Time for a change. Tired of the drama an excuses.. Message me if u like to talk on the phone to a woman instead of your buddys about cars an politics. I would how ever be ok talking about motorcycles ! I'm So over jerks That care more about there friends then there girlfriend . If your the Non - Jealous type an secure with yourself I'm hear to talk or go out for a bite maybe see a movie an doesn't mind a girl having guy friends. Also very Important A Non Smoker Not interested in Dateing anyone that Smokes or chews ! an please if your the quiet type that only wants to text don't bother me I enjoy conversation either in person or on the phone ! I also enjoy danceing if u don't then don't waste my time .I want someone to have fun out with if you're just going to sit there an watch I'm better off without you ! so if u fit my decription Message me ☺