29 Aurora, United States
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My self-summary
I am my own on going project of sorts. I don't really see an end to this aspect of myself.
I like people based on qualities. I like talented people, artists, creators. I like kind, compassionate and intelligent people. I like people who question everything they know. I like explorers, people who crave learning opportunities. I like people who follow the live and let live principles and that are non-judgmental. I like people who are striving to help others.

This is an open call to people who have high levels of give a shit-ness. People who believe in goodness, kindness, humanity and creativity with all their being.

9/7/16- I no longer have red hair. I like to change it up when I'm bored.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated with a B.A. in Psychology Dec 2015 and have just started working at The Shiloh House with troubled youth. I am also weighing options on graduate school so I can be a licensed counselor.
I'm also pursuing some hobbies in art photography, yoga, belly dancing, and body painting.
I’m really good at
Reading body language
Playing around on Photoshop
Strategy video games
Being awkward
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty short and I laugh a lot, about everything, especially my own failings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh dear. These are going to be very very incomplete lists.

I read a ton of contemplative psychology and positive psychology books and enjoy them. I also really like anything on taoism. As far as actual novels are concerned I really enjoyed;
The Mistborn series
The Neverending Story
The Torn Skirt
Go Ask Alice
Let the Right One In (also a movie)
Lord of the Rings trilogy
The Hobbit
Star Wars books (and movies)

Music: (prepare for a random assortment from my top 25 most played list in itunes)
Anya Marina
Lindsey Stirling
Arcade Fire
Belle and Sabastian
The Beatles
Be Good Tanyas
The Birthday Massacre
Blonde Redhead
The Cure
The Decemberists
Ed Sheeran
Emilie Autumn
Iron and Wine
Maxwell Hughs (local favorite amazing guitarist)
Noah and the Whale
The Kooks
Modest Mouse
and finally Smashing Pumpkins has and probably always will be my favorite band (old stuff mostly) The Album Adore is just AMAZING.

Movies: I am a bit of a film junkie. I love horror movies! especially foreign ones. Here is yet another random incomplete list.
Tale of Two Sisters
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Donnie Darko
American Beauty
Igby Goes Down
The Brothers Bloom
Let the Right One In
Star Wars

Food: I love spicy food and sweet food and well...spicy sweet food. Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican are all some of my favorites weirdly enough I'm not big on American food.
The six things I could never do without
My Computer/ Camera
Coffee/ Tea
My Dad (he is pretty cool and has helped me out a lot)
A notebook to sketch/write in
Ridiculously colorful socks (probably best not to ask)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, people, psychology, the stars.
On a typical Friday night I am
I often pick up extra shifts at work but I typically have friday off. I tend to go on hikes, read at coffee shops, play games, watch movies, whatever sounds good at the time really. Photo adventures are another favorite thing of mine!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I likes puns they make me happy.
You should message me if
You love astronomy
You like video games
You like the idea of introverted time together (playing separate games next to each other, reading next to each other etc.)
You like table top roleplaying games
You want to do art/photography together.

I am really tired of the whole dating game. I don't want to play by the "rules" I want real authentic connection. I want honesty and communication. I'm looking for something real and hopefully lasting. If you feel this on a deeper level then message me, if this freaks you out a little or you think it's stupid then don't.

Also, please do not message me in chat speak and/or one sentence. If you are really going to take the time to reach out to someone then at least use full sentences and think of something interesting to say.