56Indianapolis, United States
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My self-summary
The title "self-summary" is a bit intimidating, but let me try...
I am a confident, intelligent woman, self-sufficient, hard working, kind, loving, romantic, funny and yet sensual. I don't think that any of us should "need someone to complete" them. That seems unfair and like a disaster waiting to happen! I am not sure what to make of this term, "soul mates". I hear it a lot. I'm not sure that I believe in the concept of a one and only person for someone. I would rather believe that there are possibilities for us all and we simply have yet to meet. Thank God Al Gore invented the internet to improve our chances of finding one another, because I know you work and are as busy as I am! (LOL).

I tend to think of myself as younger, perhaps because age is pretty just a mindset or because most people seem to guess my age as younger. I can be pretty adventurous and like to have fun, joke and laugh.

I am quite thoughtful and appreciate the small things in life. I am not someone who thrives on drama or being constantly wined and dined. I miss good conversation over a cup of coffee in the morning. I miss holding hands for no reason, looking into the face of someone I love and respect and seeing my smile reflected in theirs as they look back at me.

Talking about myself is really not my forte'. I would rather hear about you, so I am not sure what else to write. I am pretty open though, so feel free to ask questions.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am seeking a new career and learning new software, etc. I have not been here in some time. I lost my password, so I apologize for missing messages.
I’m really good at
I am good at a number of things. I am an excellent listener and good conversationalist. I am very good at drawing, painting, design, and making you laugh.I am quite good a t problem solving and remaining calm in a crisis! I excel in seeing the beauty and pleasure in simple things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told that the first things people notice about me are my smile and my eyes. The next thing is usually my genuineness and openness and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read and will read just about anything. Favorite topics include, history, biographies, art, humor and mysteries. I am terrible at remembering titles and authors, but one that has always stuck with me is "To Kill a Mocking Bird". I liked the book AND the movie, which is rare to say that both were good.

I enjoy books and movies that make you think or make you laugh. As to movies, I enjoy comedy, drama, and the occasional action flick. I will watch the odd action flick if it has a good story. I liked the Indiana Jones series as well as the new Sherlock Holmes movie.

Music must have a good beat and melody for me to want to listen to it. I have pretty eclectic tastes in music. Anything from Santana, Latin, Big Band, Pop, Rock, World Beat, Celtic and even some (though limited) country. I really don't care for rap and hip hop. I think it is too negative and unoriginal.

I enjoy a good steak, anything on the grill, seafood, salad, Italian, Mexican and some Chines foods.
Six things I could never do without
This is a tough category! I could not do without books, music, my friends, my family, air and clean water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I often spend time thinking about nothing in particular and everything in general. Yes vague, I know.

I think about what is working in my life and how I may improve it. I think about my friends, my family and where I want to be headed.

I think about simple things that give me pleasure and I often allow my self to simply sit and be. I find beauty in simplicity and peace in quite and calmness.
On a typical Friday night I am
These days a typical Friday night will find me at home, relaxing with a simple movie, a good book or good friends. Not to say that I would not be up for something more adventurous!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cannot really think of anything that I am willing to admit to at the moment and of course if I make it public, it is no longer private, is it?
You should message me if
You should message me if you have any of the same interests, think that meeting someone of quality is important to you or you are looking for an intelligent, fun, genuine and romantic woman who appreciates an intelligent, fun man who is a solid guy. You should message me if you are interested in a real woman who is accepting of people for who they genuinely are or if you no longer believe that women value "good guys". I can change your mind about that.
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