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My self-summary
I asked my friends recently, "if you wrote my dating profile, what would it say?" and these are the responses I got..

"umm....that you don't take sh*t from anyone.... That's one of the things I love most about you..... And straightforward and honest. And awesome. Can't forget awesome."

"For an adult site? Sexually free without being a whore. Comes with kids, so she's going to resist becoming attached.
Managed to have 3 kids and still pull off sexy. Most relationships are built on confidence, and Mel exudes it. She's not afraid of your individuality, or of you, really. She's got a great sense of humor, has no problem making decisions, and can shoulder a lot of responsibility without going postal. If she decides to date a guy, she will be loyal--she is not a whore. She has a very healthy sex drive, which is always a plus."

" I would have to say that you are sexy woman who has three great kids, loves to watch movies that guys love, can rock out some awsome music, make just about any guy fall in love with a great sense of humor, and knows how to work with what she has without turning into a complete slut. That's what i think about you my awsome friend."

So here's what I would write...

I'm a 34 year old divorced mother of 3. I am not looking for romance or any kind of physical relationship. I'm just looking for friends, people to talk to. I don't have the time for serious dating. Restarting life is hard and I think it's important to surround yourself with like-minded people.

My favorite color is purple and my favorite sent is vanilla. I am not overly affectionate, or at least I have a history of not being affectionate. That could change with the right person, or that could just be the way I am. I know I value my personal space more than what most people see as healthy.

I don't like games, and I have a tendency to call people out on their stuff. Maybe I'm too blunt for most but I wouldn't change that about myself. IF I had free time I would like to spend more time doing stuff with the kids, seeing movies (I haven't been in a theater in a few years), having adult conversations (meaning talking with adults, not "R" rated convos, you pervs lol). I also enjoy reading a good book every so often.

I absolutely do not tolerate lying, about anything. At all. Ever. Period. End of discussion. Do not pass GO do not collect $200.
What I’m doing with my life
In December I am graduating with my AAS in Accounting! I am determined to have the ability to stand on my own before I get involved in another serious relationship. I am happy to be employed again even if it is retail for now. My independence has taken on a new importance in my life. Myself and my older two children are in martial arts. Between the 3 of us, we have 8 medals and trophies. I also now homeschool all 3 of my children and it's so much better for all of us this way.
I’m really good at
Being a mother, I suppose. It's what I've done for the past ten years and I think I'm doing a pretty good job considering I've been on my own most of the time. I have a knack at money management and I can get anal about how it's spent. I can be irritatingly logical and analytical.
The first things people usually notice about me
How about YOU tell me, what's the first thing you notice about me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Bible, Leaves of Grass, Star Wars, historical fiction and nonfiction, books about finance and investment, anything that I can download on my Nook for free.

Movies: 300, Death Note, Indiana Jones, Legend, LOTR, Star Wars, etc..

Shows: Aqua Teen, Big Bang Theory, MST3K, etc...

My favorite music would have to be rock, period.

I am always trying to be healthier, and at this point what my favorite foods are is irrelevent because I'm not eating them :)
Six things I could never do without
in no particular order.... i hate questions like this, btw.
4.Shelter kids
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future and the best way for me to accomplish my goals now that so many things have changed.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home or at work. I am homebody and looking for the same.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
HA as if.
You should message me if
You feel like it and have something relevant to say other than "sup!" or "hey sexy." Those will not get you a response, at least not one that you want anyway.
The two of us