Looking for someone who is genuine, thoughtful, mature, and growth-oriented.
For an equal.
For someone who can tolerate being the object of others' envy. ("Yes, he's a philosophy PhD student! Can you believe it? He reads Kant to me. It's the hottest thing ever!").
Interested in a relationship, not a hookup.
plenty of exercise
good, healthy food
a sense of purpose
a sense of wonder
the ability to count to six