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My self-summary
Disclaimer: I really need to update this profile more often.
I’m an introspective homebody, and I'd like to meet somebody who knows that “fat” isn’t a four-letter word. Casual socialization doesn’t come easily to me, but once I get to know you or find some common ground I really open up. I’m the very image of “bookish intellectual”. I enjoy nature documentaries about plants, insects, ocean depths, anything that explores a variety of unusual life. I love fantasy: fantasy writing, fantasy movies, fantasy rpgs, etc. I like monsters in entertainment mediums, in art, and just as concepts to play around with. I am fascinated by the supernatural and the cryptozoological, both in fiction and in alleged reality. I spend a lot of time on the internet. I am NOT into sports, and I'm repulsed by football.

I’m terminally geeky. I write fanfiction, I have lengthy debates about the moral defensibility of creating an army of the dead or why Daleks are so bloody cool, and a lot of the time I just speculate or daydream complex fictional worlds. Even if you aren’t an ubernerd, I’d like somebody who can at least meet with me on some levels.

Seriously, the fact that I like somebody who shares interests should be already apparent. Physical and sexual attraction plays a role in dating (otherwise, why are people posting their photos?) I’d like a fat girl, and a girl who’s aware that being “fat” doesn’t equate with being ugly or having a medically proven death sentence, at least as far as girls go. I'm into chubby guys, but I think I'm also into skinny guys? (I haven't figured out the spectrum of my sexuality yet). I'm also into fat individuals who don't fit the gender binary. I have a natural impulse to give presents, complement, and pamper, and if you can gracefully accept random gifts, tasty treats, and subtle attempts to spoil you, that’s awesome. The body part I’m most attracted to is the belly and I think big round bellies are the cutest.

I believe that the term “seven deadly sins” is inaccurate on at least two counts.

I consider myself a supporter of intersectional feminism (a real feminist, not a transphobic ass who only cares about white upper-middle class problems), and I have a some strong ideas about gender roles. I’m not some parasitic cretin who thinks fat girl are “easy”. I don’t even properly understand the concept of easy. I mean, if there’s a guy and a girl, both attracted to each other, they go out for dinner at mcdonalds, then they go home and have sex, conventional wisdom holds that the girl was “easy” because all it took was a snack from the dollar menu to get her into bed. Isn’t the guy here easier, because he actually paid for a meal rather than having sex with the incentive of a free one?

Did I mention I tend to ramble? I want to wrap this up with a statement. One thing that really drives me wild is a girl who wants to get fatter, known in some internet circles as a gainer or feedee. I consider myself a feeder or encourager and an fa (short for fat admirer). The collective term for this grouping/interest is feedism (Note I didn’t say “wants to get fat” or “wants to weigh x amount”, its more about the journey than the goal). I wouldn’t dream of trying to trick somebody into gaining weight, or even sabotaging diets. This refers to somebody who is interested in gaining weight/getting fatter themselves; I don't expect or want a partner to gain weight just to please me.

Update: so yeah, found out I was closer to the middle of the Kinsey scale than I realized. Still not sure how near the center I am, or how my preferences with guys may differ, but feedees are cool, and nice soft bellies are always good.
I am creative, esoteric, and nourishing
What I’m doing with my life
I'm graduate of Susquehanna University with a BA in Creative Writing and a minor in Women's Studies. I'm currently working a "freelance" position in nonprofit development. Please let me know if you have an opening in nonprofit grantswriting or prospect research. ;-;
I've written three novels, though they are not published yet. I've also written a large amount of short stories, including an anthology of feminist speculative fiction, and have published some of those. News about the published ones and upcoming publications are available on my website.

I'm working with one novel right now. and a novel length fanficI'm also struggling my way through novel submissions and cycling through various anxieties. I'm trying to find steady work at a nonprofit, maybe something with an urban gardening or pagan focus.

I am terrified. Every day. I am good at receiving venting and providing emotional validation, but I kind of need the same in return.
I’m really good at
Writing bittersweet supernatural fiction. Imagining things. I have a lot of creativity, and I'm a decent hand at cooking. I like to cook for people, especially people with big appetites who appreciate good food. ^_^ I
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair and/or nice butt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book/book series is the Old Kingdom Trilogy ( Sabriel, Lireal, and Abhorsen, plus a short story/novella Nick and the Creature) Close seconds would be Unlundun by China Meiville (although his other works are too gritty for my tastes) and Skulduggery Pleasant by Derek Landy. Other favorite books include Anansi Boys and Coraline by Neil Gaiman and the Abarat series by Clive Barker. Darkest Powers trilogy starting with The Awakening by Kelly Armstrong is a good addition to the YA Necromancer fiction niche, although her earlier work didn't appeal to me. My favorite comic author is Terry Pratchett. I'm into Harry Potter, but not as much as I am into the hardcore fantasy/high fantasy writers. In the non-fiction sector, I would have to say the histories of Thomas Cahill continue to enthrall me, and How The Irish Saved Civilization is one of the most entertaining, whitty, humorous, enthralling, and uplifting books that I have ever read.

Favorite movies include The Labyrinth, Coraline, Woody Allen's "Love and Death", Paprika, Monsters vs. Aliens, Jason and the Argonauts, and more that I'll think of later,favorite radio program is Prairie Home Companion. Favorite food type is Pizza, favorite meal/entrée is welsh rarebit, favorite homemade dessert is dwarven nut pie. I'm also a vegetarian. Favorite movie that started as a miniseries is Salem's Lot (original). Favorite movie that's painfully bad and good is Lifeforce.

Favorite unfairly cancelled TV series include Mystery Science Theater 3000. Other shows I like include Farscape, The Nightly Show, and most recently Steven Universe.

I do NOT like gritty "realism" or Annie Proulx. I despise the Twilight series either, but I'd still rather read that than Annie Proulx. At least Twilight provokes SOME emotional response. The best thing that can be said about Proulx's short story "Job History" is that it gives you the experience of a six-year coma without the inconvenience.

Music: birthday massacre nightwish within temptation paprika soundtrack P!nk Evanescence chvrches metric and discovering more each time I use pandora.
The six things I could never do without
My loving family, mystery science theater 3000, fantasy, teh internetz, and two other very important things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fantastic creatures and hypothetical worlds, undeath, necromancy, the afterlife, undead critters in general, mythology, ghouls, faeries, revenge, horrors of the future, religions real and imagined; stuff like that

Why nonbinary people with unnatural hair colors are so cool.

What exactly I like or don't like in a guy. (Still have a hard time nailing down my attraction there.)

Oh, did I also mention cute fat girls, referred to in some circles as "bbw"? Cuz I think about them a lot.

Fears and the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, rewatching some Sfdebris, eating a microwaved dinner and surfing the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I make the sign against the evil eye whenever I see a John Green novel. I went to a few halloween parties as a vampire cheerleader, where I bit a strange guy on the neck. I suffer from some of the more socially acceptable mental illnesses.
You should message me if
You want a nerdy drinking buddy for mystery science theater, rifftrax and so-bad-its-good movies.

You like tummy rubs.

You want to smash the patriarchy together.

You have a question to ask or need further clarification.

You want to brainstorm ideas for fictional monsters or fictional religions! :D

You give constructive crit/feedback on unpublished short stories.