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My self-summary
I'm a geek, and I can prove it. Been working very hard on my music demo, and I'm interested in meeting other musicians (specially singers) to collaborate with. I have an obession with Anime, and am a self taught 3D animator. If you like the arty type, I'm your man. Love to cook, make a killer expresso, latte, capucchino. I appreciate intelligent people, have a natural aversion to stupid people.

Have been doing cross-platform computer consulting since 1997. My company is well established here in the Bay Area, and I'm trying to grow it again. Tried to grow during the end of the "dot bomb" era, with tragic results. This time I'm taking the growth process very slowly and making sure that I have the incoming business to support growing. We provide end to end outsource IT services to businesses all over Northern California.

Have a few pet film projects I've been working on that are still in the planning stages, which is a very exciting time for me. I love planning my film work, it's very satisfying.

I am a 420 MMJ activist type so if you are offended by that, we shouldn't even bother.

Divorced, with a daughter that lives with mom in Folsom, CA. I'm 6'0" in decent shape for my age, strong of back, and not afraid to do heavy work. I have a fetish for clean laundry. Oh, and a few other fetishes as well hehe...

I want a geek grrl. Intelligent, honest, good sense of humor. Smart and beautiful, the deadly combination. Looking for someone who can appreciate the good things in life, the arts, good food, good company.

Would be great to meet someone who has something that they are passionate about, besides themselves.

I'm a sucker for percussion skills if you have them. Love dancers too. Write me a poem, I've been writing lots of them lately some are pretty good.

I'm searching for a muse, someone to stir my passions and feed me the inspiration that I crave.

Someone to go dancing with, even if it's only in my living room. Someone to travel with and see the world. Someone to spend quiet moments with or bash with loud and crazy. Someone who isn't intimidated by my lust for life and love. Someone who can appreciate my honesty and self confidence.

Here are a few of my favorite quotes from various sources:

He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still. ~ Lao Tzu

In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.— Rumi

When you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you‎ ~Friedrich Nietzsche

I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. - Bene Gesserit litany against fear from the book Dune

It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the juice of sapho that thoughts acquire speed, the lips acquire stains, the stains become a warning. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. ~Piter De Vries recites the following upon drinking sapho juice in the film Dune by David Lynch.

To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all. — Oscar Wilde

As for me, prizes are nothing. My prize is my work. ~Katharine Hepburn

Follow Your Art - Chandanni

"My eyes..... are flame.... My heart...... is flame....." -Mr Spock

You are master of yourself. What other master could there be? ~ Buddha

'What is love?'
'The total absence of fear', said the Master.
'What is it we fear?'
'Love', said the Master.

It is by serving mankind, that you come to know about mankind
It is by serving the goddess, that you come to know the goddess
It is by serving your own spirit, that you come to know what is important
It is by serving your own desire, that you truly learn to own those desires

Philosopher, PIN UP Enthusiast, DIVA Wrangler, Raconteur, Bon Vivant and Professional Alpha Geek.
What I’m doing with my life
Running my own business, making art in various forms, performing live doing my solo Rock & Roll Revue act, producing 4 other musical acts, working on a documentary film about my fascinatingly talented artist friend, shooting PIN UP photography for my portfolio, being a proud Papa, but mostly programming world domination while you sleep.
I’m really good at
Music, Digital Film, 3D Animation, writing poetry to my daughter, Laughing at my daughter's goofy smart ass sense of humor (I have no idea where she gets it from), solving other people's random computer issues (made a career out of it), and sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
My geekiness, it's hard to miss. And the far away look in my eyes, as I daydream about better things...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Tao Te Ching, Basho, Kama Sutra, anything by Philip K. Dick, There and Back Again, Rumi Sufi Poetry, a dizzying and ever evolving morass of technical documentation, random reference material, cryptic messages from clandestine sources, and lots of the writing on the wall.

Movies: I'm a movie whore, lots of Sci Fi and Anime, found Ralph Bakshi's Wizards on DVD, woooooo!

Music: Damone, The Mars Volta, Audioslave, Radiohead, Cole Porter, Miles Davis, this would be a huge list if I listed them all... I currently have a major fetish for Morphine and Handsome Boy Modeling School. Many many years of studying and performing music have made me into quite a musicologist.

Foods: I have a super wide palette, usually willing to try most things.
Six things I could never do without
Love (my love for my daughter takes precedence over everything)

Oh and did I mention that I love sex?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nothing at all, I'm learning to listen to how my mind works.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wishing I was with you... Otherwise, I might be out performing music or enjoying the music scene here in Oakland. If not that, I'll be at home working on the various projects I do in my 'copious' free time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you don't like to be bound or spanked we shouldn't bother...
You should message me if
You have your affairs in order, don't mind me rushing off occasionally when the Bat Signal™ calls me away somewhere, you aren't hung up about sex, and know what you want in a lover, you enjoy being aggressively silly, You aren't a hater of any type (cause we don't need no haters, we're just trying to love one another), you enjoy a Dominant kinky man (who isn't arrogant), and have CUPCAKES!
The two of us