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My self-summary
I'm a warm, caring, passionate woman with a romantic soul and a bit of a wild side when it counts, who is looking for my best friend, lover and life partner. As a strong confident woman I’m not looking for someone to “define” or “complete me, but rather a relationship where we enhance and compliment each other’s lives.

The man I'm interested in should be confident about who he is, have a sense of humor, and be honest about what he wants out of life and from the woman he wants to share his life. Someone who enjoys being gentle and tender one moment, and a purely dominant alpha male the next.

If you're interested in stimulating conversation that ranges from the downright silly to the profoundly deep, perhaps we should talk.

I'm not in to playing games; let’s leave that nonsense to the children in their 20s.
What I’m doing with my life
For 15+ years I've worked in global awards & recognition for a residential/commercial real estate corporation.
I’m really good at
Listening, kissing, massages, Reiki, cuddling....beyond that you'll have to get to know me to find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue-green eyes the color of a stormy sea and my killer smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My tastes are very eclectic, but here goes...

Books: Jane Eyre, Dragon Singer, Restoree, Dune, The African Queen, The Woman in White, The Whitechapel Horrors, Loves Music-Loves to Dance, Celtic folklore, historical biographies, Eight Cousins, Rose in Bloom, Old Rose and Silver, Prisoner of Zenda, Blue Ocean Strategy, Who moved my cheese, anything by Anne McCaffrey, Anne Perry, Mercedes Lakey or Charles Dickens, The Battle for God, White Teeth, The Lady, The Civil War Diary of Mary Chestnut, The Unlikely Lavender Queen, The Moonstone, Swiss Family Robinson, Robinson Crusoe, Treasure Island, 20,000 Leagues under the Sea, the Works of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, and thousands more.

Movies: Under the Tuscan Sun, Mary Reilly, Grosse Pointe Blank, Girl with a Pearl Earring, Animal House, Caddy Shack, Undercover Blues, Hello Dolly, My Fair Lady, Nightmare on Elm Street (1, 3, 4 & 5), Must Love Dogs, While You Were Sleeping, Now Voyager, Casablanca, Star Trek IV (voyage home), Gumball Rally, East of Eden, and again thousands more.

Music: classical, celtic, country, jazz, r&b, big-band, alternative, pop, classic rock, 50's rock n roll, heavy metal, broadway, and most styles of music from the 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's and the millenimum (no rap or hip-hop). Some favorite songs are "Jar of Hearts", "I'll be Seeing You", "I'm not your stepping stone", "Sweet Lorraine", "Don't Fear the Reaper", etc.

Food: italian, chinese, thai, indian, greek, french, pizza, irish and last but not least my Mom's meatloaf.
Six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Friends
3. My faith
4. Books
5. Good conversation)
6. Air conditioning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Too many things to list here, ranging from the downright silly to the deep and meaningful.
On a typical Friday night I am
There are several different ways I might spend a Friday night, all of which I thoroughly enjoy. Here are a few:

1. On a date
2. Movies with friends
3. Relaxing at home watching a line up of Brit-coms (British sitcoms from the 70's, 80's and 90's), with a bowl of homemade popcorn and my cat curled up on my lap.
4. Reading
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Get to know me and we'll talk...
You should message me if
You're serious about meeting someone for a relationship, do not smoke, do not do drugs, are not married, separated or "seeing someone".

You should have absolutely NO plans of travling to Africa, especially Nigeria. Trust me I won't give you a dime.
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