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My self-summary
Three Minute Rule:
You may know whether you're initially attracted to me in the first three minutes but that's it. And by the way, for a woman, attraction can grow over time when you get to really know me, even when it's initially not present on a first date.

Using this three-minute philosophy, you can end up missing a lot of good, quality men like me.

A fit man may look good but it doesn't mean he'll make a good mate for you.

The guy with the belly could stand to lose the pounds, and yet he might be the guy who could lights up your life every day and makes you very happy if you give him a chance.

Instead of just using physical characteristics as the sole basis for finding someone, think about how you want to feel around a man.

Because ultimately, you want to feel happy inside when you're with me if I am the one you finally choose. And that has nothing to do with how much I exercise or eat. It has to do with how I treat you.
What I’m doing with my life
What am I looking for?
Physical attractiveness is only one facet of a person or potential date out of many, thankfully.

Must be a Non-Smoker if not that’s a Deal Breaker.

Everybody looks the same in the dark.

A sense of humor is perhaps the most important quality I look for in a person now that I am older and a sense of humor would make any date a whole lot more fun.

Not looking for a woman to mother me. I want to be with a woman who is my partner, not my parent. I want a woman who is independent, intelligent, fun, passionate, and compassionate. Yes, I love my mom -- all good men do. I just don't want you to be mine.
I’m really good at
I like to go to garage sales and finding those things others have no idea about. It’s the thrill of the hunt.
I miss being able to do things for the special person in my life. Just the little things. Things that maybe you don't ask for but magically they get done and you go wow that was special.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am a big guy and many say that I am a huggable bear. I like to be active and enjoy going out to to try new things and enjoy what Florida has to offer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Jazz Music
All Kinds of food Like to cook.

Book the Road Less Traveled
The six things I could never do without
Good Movies
Jokes and some sarcasm
Mountain Views
seeing the wonder in the simplest things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Biking, walking, metal detecting, garage sales, going to auctions, looking for bargains at the flea market.
Real Estate Investing
Planning a travel experience to where my next get away will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Busy doing something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to fix things and have it turn out right.
You should message me if
Your job is to let me know you're interested in having me approach you. Most women get many contacts and they have to sort through all the lines.
If you have read this, then there is more to you than a Three Minute Rule. I don’t have the upgraded profile so you will have to send a message not a “I want to meet”.