44 Pleasanton, United States
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My self-summary
PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME unless you read my profile.

If after reading my profile you are moved to contact me, please do so right away because I have a habit of turning off and keeping my profile inactive a lot. It gets too much to be exposed to so much humanity on the constant basis and I enjoy peace, company of myself, my friends and family too much.

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Looking for one special man who is available for, capable of and interested in a long-term monogamous relationship full of affection, passion, sensuality, kindness, sensitivity, learning, discoveries, adventures, creativity, spontaneity, willing to push boundaries and be full of youthful energy.

We both are grownups and have a pretty busy life so you need to
have your own interests ( outsides of online dating ) and we need
to be creative in making the most out of our time together.

You are smart, funny, happy, confident and fit. Youthful and super
energetic between 36 and 51 years old. You are not shy to hold
hands, kiss and show affection in public ( away from small kids
). I desire a lot of affection and exploration from my man. I like to
test rules, beliefs and grow in my understanding of myself, you and
us together.

⇏ If you are only of average intelligence, or super smart but want to
be with a woman less intelligent then you, we are not a great fit
so please move on.
⇏ If you like to follow rules, live predictable life, we are not a
great fit so please move on.
⇏ If you are already super happy the way you are, the way your life
is and do not want to grow and change in a union with a special
woman, we are not a great fit since I want to be able to make my
man's life much better so please move on.
⇏ If you do not want to be affectionate most of time you are with
your woman (even if it is with the way we look at each other as we
discuss/argue about serious topics), then we are not a great
fit so please move on.

Are you still reading? Then you must be one of probably 3% of men
that I can see myself making truly happy.

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I am ENFP (Extraverted Intuition with Introverted Feeling) - the
Inspirer on Myers Briggs.
You can read about my personality
here http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFP.html and take your test yourself here http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp.

➥ I am explorer and adventurer by nature and love wide range of
experiences and states of being.
➥ Enjoy engaging spiritual, philosophical, scientific, business
conversations as much as silence and meditation.
➥ Love to laugh, being free and spontaneous while being
introspective and aware.
➥ Techie geek and open minded drug-free consciousness explorer and a modern day hippie.
➥ Business smart with many skills and also natural at going with the
flow, meditate and love Esalen.
➥ Smart, visionary, creative in business at work and sweet, sensual,
affectionate, feminine at home.

I am driven by love and knowledge/knowing about life, nature, and myself. Learning and growing, believe in being loving, positive, young, healthy and passionate.

I look younger than my age and had many significant life
experiences. I am often told I have wisdom of someone much

I am complex and have deep emotions. But it depends on you, how
much of me you will be able to see.

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Would love to share fun activities together as we get to know each

Live music performances - especially jazz, outdoor activities like white water rafting, hiking, skiing, ocean beach, yoga and classes/learning experiences.

Would love to watch together thought provoking, emotionally touching, historically based, inspirational movies celebrating human spirit.

Want to connect on many different levels spiritually, physically,
intellectually and emotionally.
When we deeply connect on several levels every little exchange,
look, touch, smile will feel like the most adventurous activity and
be infinitely joyful, pleasurable and fulfilling.

Let's see if we have synergy, make each other better in
different ways and "be" better together.
What I’m doing with my life
Doing what I am good at, loving, laughing, kissing, being a good friend/listener/advisor, working, parenting, enjoying, exploring, creating, learning ...
I’m really good at
Thinking, feeling, sensing, caring, loving, learning, smiling, laughing, business, being creative and spontaneous
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are on self-actualization and psychology.

Movies: I enjoy most mind bending movies like Inception, fantasy, historically based, romantic comedies of course - anything intelligent or emotionally touching.

Music: Music connects to my soul and elevates me. I enjoy anything performed with passion and appreciation: jazz, classical, symphony and pop, rock, country with good lyrics.

Food: I enjoy all kinds of food with the right company.
The six things I could never do without
Although these are not things: Love, passion, flow, synchronicity, family, music, ocean, new experiences/knowledge, running, audiobooks

iPhone and Google ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, love, raising happy smart kids, business, humanity and the world
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical Fridays here
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What is private does not get published online. 😉
You should message me if
You resonated with a few things I wrote about myself. Please mention them in your message to me.

Carpe diem. Live with Passion!