Traumatized by patriarchal capitalist civilization. Bisexual. White, and going through an identity disintegration process about it, hoping I come out the other side as an effective anti-racist ally.
Radical constantly malaligned with normative standards, yet privileged enough to sneak into situations with folks who don't realize how different I am. Working class background and now dressing in slacks and blazers for nonprofit work with no bra underneath.
I've been to difficult places in relationship, unhealthy and abusive. I've been on both sides of that. I am happy to disclose this for transparency's sake and would expect the same.
Polyamorous. I want wild love un contained by social scripts and obligations. Kindness and consideration are crucial though. So is consent and valuing pleasure in sexy times, whatever that looks like for both-all of us.
I live in community and dedicate my life to social justice and wellbeing of life. When I'm not watching old Friends episodes that is.
Sexydorkingout at gym dance classes
Volunteering too much and too little
Laying in bed
Walks on the tracks
Cultivating my intentional community residence
Planning trips to South America
Sometimes the farmers market
Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especialy authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy, Theodore Roszak
Switched at Birth
Goddess Alchemy Project
early 2000's top 40 for nostalgia
The Hanging Tree by Jennifer Lawrence
Medicine for the People
Pagan and hippie chant music e.g. Tina Malia
Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
Presence to feelings and needs
You think activism is sexy and are participating yourself
You get consent and are into real pleasure not scripted sex that assumes sex means intercourse
You like to talk and listen about nuanced emotional process
You are any gender!
You are polyamorous or at least not seeking anything monogamous or exclusive.