40Pāhoa, United States
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My self-summary
Observing the world around me, the ideal that I am the creator of reality resonates within my being. Happiness through pleasure has been the theme of my life. I value respect, kindness, and mindfulness as basic accordance.

I suppose, I'm only filling this out in hopes that you read it and think, yes, I like him and want him in my life. To be as fair as possible more friends seems like a good idea.

My life has been filled with smiles. I've been able to travel the globe a few times. My father was in the military, my mother a homemaker, advocated heaps of vacations, thus a childhood of world travel. I'm honored to be the eldest of seven off spring. School was an absolute pleasure where I learned that I naturally excel and thinking for myself was paramount for success. Sports and competition played a major role in my development as a child giving me a wide range of experiences. After college, I bounced around anywhere from a salesman, to a flight attendant, to a poker dealer, to building a foundation to live without limitations. Following my dreams, I left the grid, tried my hand at living alone on a deserted island, and have found my way into living with everything I need around me. Healing the wounds of generations, I choose to use my ability to forgive, to love with compassion and to find the wisdom that enables peace to thrive.

Inspired to find my partner because the love inside feels so exhilarating. Growing to share appreciation, adoration, sexual chemistry, and freedom with a beautiful woman. Being critical or negative is something I desire to transcend, consciousness is very sexy. Creating beauty, spreading joy, and nurturing love are great ways to win my heart.

I am free, kind, and happy
What I’m doing with my life
Finding the balance of following my dreams and figuring out the root of suffering.

I find myself living in the jungles of Hawaii, trying to do my best to live off what the land provides and to live within my values. I'm building a foundation of my life based upon these ideals of love, compassion, joy, wisdom, ease, freedom, bliss, kindness, peace, forgiveness, and integrity. It sounds very idealistic and to a point it is, I really do the best I can with what I have.
I’m really good at
Trying new things, living well internally, being alone, problem solving, untying knots, making people feel good about themselves, relaxing, growing vegetables, digging holes, I'm good at just about anything I do.

I see so much potential for greatness and excellence in just about everything. Being honest to the core, especially with myself, I refuse to lie to myself no matter how delusional it may seem, I do what I can when I can to be true to myself. I live my life with integrity, I still have grand ideas and like to hold onto hope as if it will someday bring the solution to consumerism.
The first things people usually notice about me
I usually have a smile plastered on my face, I would hope most people would notice that first. The comment I get the most is, your wearing a shirt, or that I am wearing something other than a pair of shorts.

You will notice my great smile, my beautiful eyes, my perfectly tanned skin, my flowing hair, my beard, if your overwhelmed, no worries, I'll catch you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Book: How to Practice: A Way To A Meaningful Life and An Island to Oneself are my favorite titles, I enjoy books that expand my thinking, meditation, self improvement, humor, DIY, cooking, sustainability, art, spirituality, and gardening are usually the books I read and enjoy

Favorite Movie: Meet Joe Black, Our Idiot Brother, Office Space, Tombstone, Friday, Thomas Crown Affair, Superbad, Serendipity, American Beauty, Seven Years in Tibet, Grandma's Boy, A Life Less Ordinary, Into the Wild, Cast Away, Love Actually, What Dreams May Come, I will not and do not watch horror movies

Favorite Television: Survivor, How I Met Your Mother, and Big Bang Theory are the few that come to mind.

Favorite Music: In no particular order and somewhat of a paradox, Jack Johnson, Grateful Dead, Bob/Ziggy/Damain Marley, Eric Clapton, Brittney Spears, Snoop, George Strait, Jimmy Buffet, Don Williams, Willie Nelson, Janet Jackson, Michael Buble, Rolling Stones, Norah Jones, Marvin Gaye, LL Cool J, Frank Sinatra, Eddie Vedder, Donovan Frankenreiter... I listen to Anothiny Robbins, Marshall Rosenburg, Louise Hay/Abraham Hicks, Pema Chodron, Thich Nhat Hanh, or a Ted Talks.

Favorite Food: Spaghetti, Macaroni & Cheese, Bread, Potatoes(Sweet, Russet, and starchy things like Taro and Breadfruit), Chicken, Beef, Fish, Pork, Corn, Watermelon, Tomatoes, oh I love Oranges, simple is usually good, organic and local is important, homegrown is best.
Six things I could never do without
I made the conscious decision to give up everything I owned, so while it may seem silly to answer this without having materialism writing all over it, I am not materialistic.

Food - I lived on a small island, castaway style. Food gave me a purpose some days, other days the enjoyment was in preparing it, food is far more than something to eat.
Water - More than drinking it, I love taking baths, soaking in hot tubs, playing in the ocean, even laying by a pool.
Friendship - As much as it's important to be self-reliant, with good friends life is so much more fun.
Happiness - I try to wake up each day happier than the previous, happiness is my biggest goal and achievement each day
Relaxing - For my mental stability, I relax and enjoy comfort
Hope - Cheesy indeed. Doesn't make it less true.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Happiness. I want to keep it with me at all times, spread it to friends and then anyone who will accept it. How to be more naturally compassionate. How the universe showers me with blessings. How to heal the generations of hurt that our world is experiencing, how to stop that hurt from causing suffering, and how on earth did I find this as my life path instead of something a bit more practical.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'd prefer to spend my nights, reading books that teach, thinking about ideas for a better future, eating yummy food. Pleasure and comfort seem to be worthwhile so I stirve to have both, that being said I live in the jungle and don't like the idea of walls on my house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If, it were possible, I would be addicted to the divine feminine energy that draws me forward.

I come up with ideas all of the time that I think are mine, but no, someone else stole my idea years ago. Yet, I'm surprised each time.

I would like being kind, compassionate, loving, nurturing, gentle, and mindful to come with less effort and be more natural.
You should message me if
* you like to smile
* you want to smile more
* you want to or live close to nature, live off the grid
* you want to make my day, probably my week
* you have good advice (Seriously, good advice only)
* your broken heart is ready to mend
* free thinking doesn't offend you
* want to make a new friend
* like interesting people that follow their dreams

If you happen to be interested in making a match, it's important to me that you know or at the very least desire to know how to get your needs meet. Connected with the beautiful soul that resides with your being. If you can't be honest with yourself, there is little hope, some, but little hope that I will be able to decipher the truth. Be ready to love and be loved.

Whether you message me or not, have a great day and best of luck to you finding whatever you may be looking for.
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