44 Glendale, United States
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My self-summary
If you like me say something...guys shouldn't always be expected to start the conversation. Sorry if I don't me ladies do this as well. Unfortunately there's a lot of scams and people fishing for information on here. So it's no wonder I'm a little standoffish. Many people that have contacted me were fake's disheartening.

The age range on my profile is only a suggestion not a rule. However profile photos are a must...Aesthetics and attraction are important.
Sorry if you appear to be larger than me we won't be a match. I am also very much attracted to personality and I am a very selective man due to this.

Everyday is a day filled with opportunity to change and grow. I am a work in progress and I live to be greater than I was the day before.

I moved back to Arizona after living in Portland close to 9 years. Unfortunately the career I went to Portland with, ended and almost landed me in the street. I moved here to rebuild and recover. I still have a lot of work to do and if you can accept that, then maybe we can talk. Not everything worthwhile in life is easy. I am looking for another chance at life and love.

If I could explain the woman I am looking for she'd be my best friend, confidant, and my lover. She would encourage me in my life and I would do the same for her. I want to share something special with someone that appreciates me for the person I am...I am a bit of a dreamer
I am looking forward to the future and all of its trials and tribulations...if I meet someone to share that journey I would be thrilled. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I live...I do things that are necessary. I enjoy life to the best of my means. I am exciting some days and mediocre others. Life isn't always an amusement ride, but I love the moments when it is.
Also as of late taking trips with friends. I saw the sunset over the ocean for the first time in August. Why did it take so long? It was gorgeous. I hope to camp more soon as well.
I can walk for hours if I'm in the mood to/it's not miserably hot out. So hiking is okay...although I'm not a rock climber or all too great with heights sometimes.

I am hoping to begin traveling in the next few years. There are so many places I would love to see in this lifetime.

I also work in Advertising Sales for a large Social Media company...Face it, you've heard of them ;)
I’m really good at
Making people laugh...but not in a "on stage" way.
Versatility...I adapt to things pretty well
I have a very big heart and I am passionate in life and love...sometimes we forget to be, but good friends remind us to wake up. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My appearance...I have been told I can be "intimidating" however I am a big guy who is quiet at first. I am actually a very kind and loving individual.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As of late I am a bit into A Game of Thrones on TV as well as the series of books. I enjoy Neil Gaiman comics and novels too.
I enjoy reading and avidly do so...generally fiction, however I also read books identifying with the pagan world. I am deep into a book by Robin Artisson called "Letters from the Devil's Forest" and I love it.

I have been identified as a "cool" geek by some...then again that sounds egotistical. Honestly I like comics and will occasionally read one or two. I have "role-played" in both the table top and kinky way. I know that "Magic: The Gathering" is a card game and I prefer Cards Against Humanity more. I suppose what identifies me mostly in the "geek" way is I have many friends that are geeks and I enjoy their company.

I love movies...comedy, action, drama, and of course I enjoy some Horror films, but not Gore films. I love Pixar animation too which is one of those quirky things about me...ah guilty pleasures. My favorite new movie is Guardians of the was a great mix of comedy and Sci-Fi. If you have not seen it and would like to you should hit me up ;)

I try to eat healthy foods but mess up and eat 5 Guys or something similar occasionally. Unfortunately I have sugar issues and need to make better decisions instead of guzzling soda and eating sweets. It's an evil that I would be better off without. I am working on this currently and haven't touched sweets for weeks now. However...I don't want someone to be my food sitter and please don't think I am going to judge you for your food habits.

I enjoy occasional bouts of TV like Supernatural, Dexter, True Blood, BSG, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones and Vikings. I generally watch these on closed captioning while lifting my dumbbells so I don't feel like I am just sitting around doing nothing. I also enjoy listening to a few podcasts...Dan Savage is probably one of my favorites. Being sex positive and promoting communication to couples is kind of awesome, so he kinda rules. :)

Music...I love music. I am currently addicted to the band Eluveitie, they are amazing live and on their albums...I listen to a mixture of Hip hop, Metal, Synthpop, Industrial, Psychobilly...I could just name every genre here but hopefully you get it. I enjoy a variety of everything. I am very picky about the concerts I attend and will go a few times a year depending on the artist and the location.

I also love Buddy Wakefield and quite a few other spoken word artists.
The six things I could never do without
Self respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Exercise...finances...Beer...Books...movies...mead...will I ever write that book?...what motivates people/human behavior (why we do the things we do to ourselves and others)...brewing...why most people treat sex (anything or everything to do with sex) like it is dirty and or to create a life that will meet my needs and those of my partner...Will I ever be able to buy a house? Will my last idea come into fruition and be as successful as I planned? The great thing about thinking is that I do it quite a bit and I think about so many things that a small list would never encompass the hurricanes of thought going on constantly.
On occasion I enjoy watching sports and would eventually like to get more involved playing some.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out with friends, playing Cards Against Humanity, catching a movie, or sometimes staying home and reading...yet I generally try to force myself into a social situation or I'd never meet anyone.
Sometimes I may be at, or near ,the river or beach. I enjoy nature and need a camping buddy that I can also make out with ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit as tough as I may seem or appear, I get sad seeing ASPCA commercials while Sarah McLachlan is singing. In fact...I love Sarah McLachlan and get made fun of quite often for it. Meh.
You should message me if
I am a motivated and driven individual and hope to find someone that can respect that. I have ideas and moments of inspiration that cause me to become very involved in projects.
I am looking for someone that accepts me for who I am. Someone that understands people aren't perfect and when you have something good you nourish it.
We are all amazing beings and deserve respect.Far too many of us live lives where people and relationships are treated like a convenience or even an inconvenience...its kind of sad.

Please leave me be if you have a list of perfection for a partner...lists are for goals or groceries, not human relationships.