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My self-summary
Unfortunately there's a lot of scams and people fishing for information on's disheartening.

Aesthetics are important to me. This may be shallow but it is true. I am also very much attracted to personality and I am a very selective man due to this

Everyday is a day filled with opportunity to change and grow. I am a work in progress and I live to be greater than I was the day before. I moved back to Arizona after living in Portland close to 9 years. Unfortunately the career I went to Portland with, ended and almost landed me in the street. I moved here to rebuild and recover. I still have a lot of work to do and if you can accept that, then maybe we can talk. Not everything worthwhile in life is easy. I am looking for another chance at life and love.

If I could explain the woman I am looking for she'd be my best friend, confidant, and my lover. She would encourage me in my life and I would do the same for her. I want to share something special with someone that appreciates me for the person I am...I am a bit of a dreamer
I am looking forward to the future and all of its trials and tribulations...if I meet someone to share that journey I would be thrilled. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Life isn't always an amusement ride, but I love the moments when it is.

I can walk for hours if I'm in the mood to/it's not miserably hot out. So hiking is okay...although I'm not a rock climber or all too great with heights sometimes.

I am hoping to begin traveling in the next few years. There are so many places I would love to see in this lifetime.
I appreciate my ancestry and those who know me know I am in love with the old Norse tales, History, Culture and of course their Gods.

I also work in Marketing for a company that manufactures Silicone products.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh...but not in a "on stage" way.
I am creative and tend to use my talents occasionally.
Versatility...I adapt to things pretty well.

I have a very big heart and I am passionate in life and love...sometimes we forget to be, but good friends remind us to wake up. :) I am very affectionate with the right people.
The first things people usually notice about me
My appearance...I have been told I can be "intimidating" however I am a big guy who is quiet at first. I am actually a very kind and loving individual.
I am not easy to judge right away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love movies...comedy, action, drama, and of course I enjoy some Horror films, but not Gore films. I love Pixar animation too which is one of those quirky things about me...ah guilty pleasures. My favorite new movie is Guardians of the was a great mix of comedy and Science Fiction. I am currently also in love with the film Logan.

I try to eat healthy foods but mess up and eat 5 Guys or something similar occasionally. I do enjoy good food.

I enjoy occasional bouts of TV like BSG, Taboo, Legion, Game of Thrones and Vikings. I also enjoy listening to a few podcasts...Dan Savage is probably one of my favorites. Being sex positive and promoting communication to couples is kind of awesome, so he kinda rules. :)

Music...I love music. I am currently addicted to the band Eluveitie, they are amazing live and on their albums...I listen to a mixture of Hip hop, Metal, Synthpop, Industrial, Psychobilly...I could just name every genre here but hopefully you get it. I enjoy a variety of everything. I am very picky about the concerts I attend and will go a few times a year depending on the artist and the location.

I also love Buddy Wakefield and quite a few other spoken word artists.
Six things I could never do without
Self respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
mead...will I ever write that book?...what motivates people/human behavior (why we do the things we do to ourselves and others)...brewing...why most people treat sex (anything or everything to do with sex) like it is dirty and or to create a life that will meet my needs and those of my partner...Will I ever be able to buy a house? Will my last idea come into fruition and be as successful as I planned?

The great thing about thinking is that I do it quite a bit and I think about so many things that a small list would never encompass the hurricanes of thought going on constantly.
On occasion I enjoy watching sports and would eventually like to get more involved playing some.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have become an introvert since I've been in Arizona. Not driving limits everything and as I said I'm rebuilding my life. The need for a car is on my list.

I enjoy nature and need a camping buddy that I can also make out with ;)
I am also looking for a gym buddy since my gym membership allows me one guest per visit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit as tough as I may seem or appear, I get sad seeing ASPCA commercials while Sarah McLachlan is singing. In fact...I love Sarah McLachlan and get made fun of quite often for it. Meh.
You should message me if
I am looking for someone that accepts me for who I am. Someone that understands people aren't perfect and when you have something good you nourish it.
We are all amazing beings and deserve respect.Far too many of us live lives where people and relationships are treated like a convenience or even an inconvenience...its kind of sad.

Please leave me be if you have a list of perfection for a partner...lists are for goals or groceries, not human relationships. Please leave me alone if games are your thing. I don't appreciate being strung along to be disappointed.
The two of us