So, how am I supposed to show you who I am in a few sentences? In a nutshell, if you watched and were moved by the film "Before Sunset" with Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy, you will understand how I think and the way I view the possibilities of love and true connection...
....I'm a sincere, quick-witted, and [reportedly] smart guy seeking a friendship (and hopefully more) with a man who is stimulating, kind-hearted and possesses a youthful spirit.
Having been in an 18 year relationship, I am looking to find new friends to spend some time with. Life on my own is fine; life with others is better.
If you still have a pair of doc martens or high-top converse in your closet, I will be able to relate to you. And if your old vinyl copy of the Cure's "Disintegration" is in there, too, we are well on our way!
If you are the type of person who is unafraid to help an old lady reach something on a high shelf in a supermarket or to pick up a baby's rattle if it falls on the ground while you're walking by, you are MY type of person....
I've been fortunate to work in environments where there is a value to the "life of the mind." But, I'm also a big kid at heart who laughs easily, cries willingly and cares deeply.
I have also taught Public Speaking at another university for 17 years. "Always do a job you would do even if you didn't get paid," my grandfather used to say. This is THAT job :)
Oh, and I'm great at changing lightbulbs without having to stand on a ladder!
Big time music fan--goth, industrial, electronic, alternative, shoegaze, etc. Concerts (Recently saw M83, Midge Ure, IAMX, Steven Wilson, Sigur Ros, OMD, Depeche Mode, Alison Moyet, Simple Minds, NIN, Cyndi Lauper, Skinny Puppy, Gary Numan, Blackfield, Kraftwerk, VNV Nation, Erasure/Book of Love, London Grammar)...As for food? Anything except pickled beets, but I'll eat them if that's all you're serving:)
Books--Kite Runner, She's Come Undone, The Condition, 5 People You Meet in Heaven, Toni Morrison, David Sedaris.....I read a lot of corny books about the state of higher education.
Music---80s alternative (Depeche Mode, Cocteau Twins, New Order, OMD, Sisters of Mercy, Book of Love, Blancmange, Ultravox, Simple Minds, Siouxsie, Moev, Danse Society, Peter Murphy, the Cure, etc); Lycia, Slowdive, Clan of Xymox, Moby, VNV Nation, Austra, Bel Canto, Faith and the Muse, Goldfrapp, Hooverphonic, IAMX, Informatik, James, Dead Can Dance, Sophya, Seabound, Sigur Ros, the Verve, Washed Out, Porcupine Tree, No-Man, Antlers, Malory, M83, Radiohead, Diary of Dreams, Ladytron, Front Line Assembly, Apoptygma Berzerk, Mind in a Box, Pride and Fall, Active Child, And One, Apparat, Assemblage 23, Beach House,Boxer Rebellion, Claire Voyant, Hammock, Bethany Curve, Gus Gus, the Knife, FKA Twigs, Trust, Highspire, Chelsea Wolfe, God Is An Astronaut, In the Nursery, Purity Ring, Trust, Ulrich Schnauss, 2:54, and the list goes on and on...
Food--If you want specifics? Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, a good Steakhouse or a Jersey Diner. I'm totally not picky. Eating is about breaking bread and having conversation--so what I eat is immaterial!
Drink--nice bottle of red wine does the trick...COFFEE!
TV--Walking Dead, Revenge, Desperate Housewives (RIP), anything on HGTV, Top Chef, Chopped, Orange is the New Black (and other Netflix binges), Homeland, How to Get Away With Murder, American Horror Story, The Good Wife, the Fosters, the Blacklist, Shark Tank!.
6. Kalamata Olives (I had to throw SOMETHING insignificant in there!)
I played the violin when I was 4? I was still playing it at 9, but hadn't improved ONE BIT!
Or more relevant---I often salt my food at a restaurant before I taste it. Impulsive, I know!