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My self-summary
I'm a dominant roleplaying geek. I am a gorean style dominant, but not an ass. I obsess over mathematical systems, science fiction and fantasy roleplaying, and science fiction and fantasy literature. I enjoy karaoke and exploring nature as much as I do writing fantasy worlds and playing video games. I am a very spiritual person, and take no religious faith lightly. I do not hold back anything involving my emotions. I love without restraint. I do not lie, and do not misrepresent myself or my intentions. If I tell you something, you can believe it. Most people have told me that I am very easy to trust, and I have tried my best not to ever abuse that bond with anyone.

I have an interest in BDSM that can't be glossed over or denied, but it doesn't rule my life. My romantic side does, however, and I can't have a relationship with a woman I don't consider a friend. I have a high incidence rate of keeping ex's as friends, and have no intention of changing that.

I wanted a submissive woman who I can take as my own. I found her. So for now all I truly seek are more friends. Especially if you are into roleplaying game design, or just roleplaying in general. I am also looking for people to network with on work. I am a problem solver, a "fixer." I am good at finding answers to a variety of questions. When I can't find answers, I can often find the people who can answer them. Its one of my greatest talents I think. All I have ever wanted is a job that challenges me, makes me think. I'm not a filing type person, I am a facilitator. I need challenges like trees need sunlight. Boredom is my greatest enemy. I work in IT in the TV Industry in Macon, and for now I'm happy.

My challenge with boredom are one of the reasons I enjoy roleplaying games so much. As a DM I must come up with an overarching story that the players will enjoy, and must handle the more mundane issues of running the game as well. As a player I make my character as complex and as living as possible, since it gives the DM a bunch to work from. Both of these things make for a fun experience for me, and my knowledge of game mechanics mean that I will be able to have fun on a more basic level, the level of my build versus another build. Challenge is what its about. Now if only I could paid for this :}

I am dominant, friendly, and curious
What I’m doing with my life
I work for the NBC Affiliate in Macon GA, as IT Manager. Its a great job, and a great place to cut my teeth in the profession.
I’m really good at
I'm also scarily good at reading emotional state from IM conversations. Don't know how I picked it up, and I can't really teach it, but I can usually guess true intent and mood behind what people say in an IM, at least live.

I'm also very good at coming up with names and plots off the top of my head, though details are sometimes difficult. I have a documented +15 to search when it involves gaming books or gaming information. I am also scarily good at remembering random gaming facts and most people consider me their gaming encyclopedia. This is funny to me since I tend to gloss over details that mean a lot.

Other than that: I have a very good grasp of human anatomy, especially female anatomy. All of my female friends ask me for massages. I'm a pretty good singer if I stay in my range (Garth Brooks, 3 doors down, Fuel, some beach boys). I am really good at Sing Star, and love to sing even when I'm singing badly. I'm really good at screwing up a good thing unless people tell me I'm doing it (hence why communication is key).
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my laugh. I have an obnoxiously loud laugh sometimes, which is odd since I usually am a very quiet person. My eyes range from a crystal blue to a sea blue-green depending on mood, fatigue, and horniness. They've been known to go positively gray when I am depressed and sad.

Personality wise: they notice how trustworthy I am, and how very seriously I take honesty, honor, and trust. I'm also usually quite the quiet person, unless you can get me opened up about a subject I feel utterly at home with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books that changed my life: The Dune Series by Frank Herbert and the Gor Series by John Norman. From well written long winded epics to poorly written short sci fi crap, both of these series of books had a profound impact on how I think today.

Books I enjoy: Any book on Middle Earth that JRR TOlkien wrote, plus the Silmarillion and the Book of Unfinished Tales that his son published. I haven't read the series his son put out based solely on his notes. The Thomas Covenant series, The Darkness Rising series, The Beauty series by the pen name of Anne Rice, The Bible (hey, if you want high flying fantastic adventure, look no further than the old testament), the Memory, Sorrow, and Thorn Trilogy by Tad Williams, the Otherland series by Tad Williams (EXCELLENT sci fi if you ever get the chance), The Dragonlance Chronicles and Legends Trilogies, and Dragons of Summer Flame by Weis and Hickman (both of whom are really cool people, I've met both), the Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind, and a plethora of others.


Movies: The Matrix movies (I teared up at the end of the third one), Casablanca (thank you Castimirr), Most action movies starring Wil Smith (hey they may be crap, but they are FUN crap), Princess Bride, Legend, Labrynth, Blade Runner, Replicant, Robotech (the series, and the new Shadow Chronicles movie), Pretty much anything Macross related (Macross 7, Macross Frontier, etc), Robojocks, Mad Max Beyond Thunderdome, Xmen 2, Saw (even though I refuse to watch it again, and refuse to go to the sequel), and pretty much any fantasy styled or sci fi styled movie that comesout I'll at least watch, if not love. I enjoy the Lord of the Rings movies, but I end up wishing that he'd stayed closer to the books. But all in all, very good movies.


Music I enjoy: Wow, there's a list to fill a tome.....Nightwish, Def Lepard, Tori Amos, NIN, Perfect Circle, Garth Brooks, Toby Keith, Kelly Clarkson, Rev 22:20 off of the Underworld Soundtrack, Metallica, Megadeath, Eminim, Dr Dre (older stuff anyway), NWA, Bon Jovi, Nickleback, 3 Doors Down, Enigma, Disturbed, Evenessence, Stroke 9 (I got to see them in concert), Blink 182 (I got to see them warm up before I got rained out of their concert), Janet Jackson (older stuff), Brian Adams, Godsmack, Fuel, Lita Ford, Ozzy....the list goes on. I've barely touched the surface. As you can see, I have very eccletic tastes.


Foods: Sweet foods, Steak, burgers without pickles or onions, General Tso's Chicken that's not TOO spicy with a bed of white rice, or friend rice at a few places, Shrimp, Tater Tots, Chocolate Macademia Nut Cookies (I like subways specifically, but Kroger's are good too), Banana Pudding, Burritos, Tacos, Quesadillas, Miracle Whip (not Mayo), Green Beans from the can, Cream Corn, Fresh Baby Spinach (dipped in French Dressing ideally, or on a salad with French all over it), Potato Soup (I like my dad's...wish I had the recipe, and O'Charley's; both are thick, full of cheese and stick to you for hours), French Toast (with Cinnamon, Powdered Sugar, and just a bit of syrup to keep all that on the bread), Strawberry Shortcake, Strawberry Ice cream, and Strawberry/Vanilla mix milkshakes. I enjoy Sweet Tea (good southern sweet tea that rots your teeth out when you drink it), Mt Dew (Code Red and Regular), Pepsi, Mellow yellow, Milk (Plain, Chocolate, and Strawberry), Orange Juice, Sunny Delight, Apple Juice, and good cold clear pure water.

I don't like: Pickles...they have two things in them I don't like, cucumbers and vinegar. Onions. BLECH! Not fond of Peppers by themselves, green, red, yellow, it doesn't matter. My idea of a salad includes carrot, Lettuce, Tomato, and Spinach, and nothing else besides cheese and french or thousand island dressing.


Alcohol: I hate Beer. I love Rum, I enjoy most any other sweet liquor. Vodka and Tequilla have a special place in hy heart, but only mixed. I like Sangria, which my wine snob friends tell me is not really a wine, but I don't care. Most wines are just too bitter and nasty to me.


I am going to include a seperate category. Favorite Games (and I'll include non-rpgs too for you non-roleplayers out there)

DnD (pretty much all versions), Rifts, Robotech (I own both of the PS2 games, and almost everything ever published by Palladium), Shadowrun (3rd and 4th), Battletech (Roleplaying and the war game), Warhammer and Warhammer 40K (the table top minature war game - I like the RPGs, but don't play them). Command and Conquer will always have a place in my heart, as will Starcraft. I love the Warcraft strategy games, but I'm not big on WoW. I love City of Heroes/Villains - most awesome MMO evar. I love the Call of Duty games, as well as the Ghost Recon series. I enjoy Splinter Cell way too much, I detest the Lara Croft games (stupid controls!), and have a special place in my heart for Dynasty Warriors. Fighting games are interesting as long as I'm not losing every match.
Six things I could never do without
In no particular order: 1. My Friends 2. Gaming 3. My Computer and High Speed Access 4. Love 5. D/s relationships 6. My right to vote.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why it is I end up attracted to women who can't deal with the deluge of emotions I tend to let rip. I've had several relationships end because I scared them by "smothering" them with the depths of my emotion. Thanfully that's not a concern anymore. My baby just get emotional back at me!

Oh yeah, and gaming, and politics, and religion, and a lot of other things. Did I mention gaming? If not I should have.
On a typical Friday night I am
Once a month I have a game at my house or a friend's, the rest of the time I'm either at home with my baby or hanging with some friends (if at someone's house, you can be there's Singstar involved).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very emotional person, and tend to make really quick bonds to people I care about. It is possible for me to fall in love with someone I don't completely know yet.

I am also a very sexual and touchy person in a relationship. Some people have been frightened by this before. Fair warning.

Oh yeah...I'm a gaming geek. Deal.
You should message me if
You have an interest in gaming (roleplaying mostly, but I do get into some computer games too), or you're bored and think we may have something in common.
The two of us